How to not get flaked on at the one yard line

grrinchas · 2020-01-05T22:07:03+00:00

Or maybe first girl couldn't meet cause her parents were there and the second girl because she was tired.

I know it may sound totally crazy, but sometimes it is not everything about you.

Girls sometimes, say the truth, you know.

Just keep doing what you are doing everything is fine.

axe122 · 2020-01-06T05:06:11+00:00

It’s cuz your plans are basically sex. They were excited about the idea at first and if they were super horny they would still hang out but something changed and they weren’t down for basically agreeing to fuck you before hanging out cuz they weren’t 100% sure of you.

Try getting a drink or anything first and then going back to your place, it’s more work but they won’t flake if your not needy and all over them in text. Girls need that plausible deniability, they know what coming over to your place means or vice versa but they aren’t 100% ready with you yet and don’t wanna feel the pressure of you being there and they aren’t feeling it having to say no.

Take her for whatever just to hangout coffee ,ice cream,food,drinks (nothing fancy) make it like we’ll get some food and maybe “we can hang out after and watch a movie if we want or if we’re feeling it.” This takes the pressure of guaranteed sex off her and if she sees you as a potential sexual partner she’ll show up. Then just have fun tease her kiss her before you invite her for the movie. Say let’s go watch that movie or if you can come up with something better to get her to your place use that. She’ll most likely go back with you if you escalate sexually and physically a little during your hanging out. Also don’t make whatever yous are doing to long(hour max) just something to get her out so she feels comfortable leaving if she’s not feeling you sexually. The other possibility is some other guy beat you to the punch and she just got laid so she’s not looking to just have sex at that moment.

I would assume it’s the first scenario as the first thing I noticed was they agreed to hangout but they were both situations where they were basically committing to sex if they went through with it. They know it’s a lot easier to leave or say no if your out somewhere public first.

I’m sure you’ll get some girls if you just keep doing what your doing and moving to hang at their place or yours but you’ll be waiting for them to have a strong sexual attraction for you, not have just gotten laid by someone else and you’ll lose more of them.

The way I suggested is more work but will def increase your odds, you just have to make sure you treat it like it’s a preamble to sex and don’t interview her like your on a cliche date. Just hangout with her have fun , be playful, tease her, sexually escalate some while your out (don’t wait to kiss her till your alone) and get her back to your place. There’s a lot of good info and tips on getting a girl to your place like different things like, if she shows up at your place tell her you forgot something upstairs, you gotta run up and get it, invite her in and then leave to do your plans. This familiarizes her with your place and makes her more comfortable going back over later since she’s already been there. There’s also a difference between asking if she wants to go back to your place and just saying let’s get out here and find a good movie. You gotta see what works for you but I found this stuff works if you apply it properly and keep at it. A lot of puas suggest just taking a girl to your place without even telling her you are lol they suggest saying your gonna take her somewhere for coffee going to your place and just going inside lol I’ve personally never used this but I’ve seen more than one pua suggest this style of take her to your house just go in and if she doesn’t follow its whatever you can always take her home. Apparently they almost always go in with you lol I never tried this one cuz just saying let’s go back and watch a movie always works for me but see what works for you.

PimPedOutGeese · 2020-01-05T22:22:33+00:00

Might be a pressure thing (the situation is too easy) or a value thing (they don’t think highly enough of me).

Maybe it’s both. But it’s definitely a numbers game. Just keep approaching.

Even girls who have reached out to me end up flaking.

Unless you’ve hooked up already when this happens it’s just for show. When they initiate a meet up, especially in regards to your examples, it’s lip service.

What can I do to fix this?

You kind of already said it...Maybe your perceived value isn’t high enough. Maybe from appearance. Maybe from the way you lay the game.

Maybe you game too much during text. As you can already see getting a number means diddily jack shit...

if it’s CONTINUALLY happening it’s you. Your doing something wrong.

If the actual scheduling is happening over text that is a good place to start. In person. Preferably right before or after you get the digits.

Burr_burrr · 2020-01-05T23:29:19+00:00

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omega_kush · 2020-01-06T00:52:37+00:00

Sounds like you talk them out of it at the end... Maybe you are acting too eager, that will run them away for sure...

2020-01-06T06:08:46+00:00

Probably because you respond with "ayt" a lot.

Title	How to not get flaked on at the one yard line
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Date	January 5, 2020 9:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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