Is it so hard to attract women who are taller than you?

lifeunbalanced · 2020-01-12T21:44:53+00:00

Being short is not fair. Taller guys on the same level always gets picked. So you have to work harder to match up.

That being said life is not fair you have to match up but it’s not impossible. Some girls won’t date you if your shorter than them but some won’t mind as much. I have a lot of short friends that do extremely well with women.

They tend to have an awesome social circle, be awesome financially, funny, talkative, amazing to hang around with and just great guys. Your not going to get taller, but you can build on everything else. I’ve seen guys like these get girls 9 to 10/10 who are tall too.

So stop focusing on height and don’t let that give you an excuse for what your not getting. I actually have one friend who was super short. Like 4 something and still manages to get some girls 10-20cm taller than him. And I personally have beat out guys much taller than me for girls when their choosing.

Let me just give you this advice, if height is going to bother you, it’s definely going to bother them.

Imperator_Pyra · 2020-01-12T21:50:59+00:00

I'm 173 cm short. Two of the three new girls I hooked up with last year were taller than me - 183 cm and 177 cm tall.

The first of those two told me something interesting: she usually avoids guys who are shorter than her, but only because they are very clearly and visibly uncomfortable around her. But I didn't care about the height difference, so neither did she.

But if you're saying that you're not acting weird (for lack of a better term) around tall girls, then... Maybe your approach just needs tweaking in general.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-13T02:39:47+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Time2MeetYourMaker · 2020-01-12T21:41:10+00:00

I in no way think women are objects but, if you want to attract women think of it as you selling something, you don’t want to start with “hey wanna go out” you start with looks, then you move in and ask her about the fucking sun or the day, then you move to her and then give her your name and ask for hers, then you go on, you also want to ask her about herself and have her talking, if she asks about you then you have done 70% of the work and she is closer to you and feels confortable, then you ask her if she wants to hang out. (Thats my approach)

Title	Is it so hard to attract women who are taller than you?
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Date	January 12, 2020 9:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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