THIS IS REALLY BOTHERING ME

Melchezedech · 2020-01-19T09:12:03+00:00

Hang on. Just to clarify. You're having the feeling that she's hooked up with 'better' looking guys prior to your current relationship

2020-01-19T10:26:48+00:00

Maybe talk to her about it, what exactly bothers you? Is it that she won’t like you? Or what exactly?

Dankenheimer00 · 2020-01-19T21:42:32+00:00

This is weird? Your the one with her now. Why are you comparing yourself to other people? That never helps.

2020-01-19T10:15:56+00:00

Don’t get rid of the feeling because you can’t. It will change on its own. Watch it objectively.

grrinchas · 2020-01-19T11:22:27+00:00

You have relationship problem.

When I was in a relationship I was fat, and was the worst bf, that you can think of (selfish, didn’t pay attention, played video games, didn’t travel with her etc). And yet, not even once I didn’t trust her. Why? Because I was honest with her, I was like open book, I had no secrets with her. And I respected her. I think that’s why she didn’t cheat on me. Due to mutual respect to each other.

OnlyOnceThreetimes · 2020-01-19T16:28:35+00:00

If you want to form a close bond with your partner you need to be an open book to them without telling them they need to fix you. Tell her how you are feeling despite knowing it doesnt make sense.

Ultimately you want to feel attractive to her and you feel loved and you want to be the one she feels that way about above ALL ELSE. So talk with her and let her tell you.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-01-20T16:58:25+00:00

Improve and get more confident.

Drop your ego.

Title	THIS IS REALLY BOTHERING ME
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	26
Date	January 19, 2020 8:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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