All couples should be each other's therapists. What are the Red Pill reasons to disagree with this?

despoticVeracity · 2015-05-13T03:30:24+00:00

Because to talk to a therapist, you need to open yourself up and lay all insecurities bare. In other words, you break frame and reveal insecurities and weaknesses to your partner.

The only unconditional love is that of a mother for her children. You do not shift from 'have to win her over' to 'fuck effort; we love each other always' just because you enter a relationship.

Showing weakness will make the man less attractive. A less attractive man is a less appealing man. A less appealing man means a more unhappy woman. A more unhappy woman means less sex. Less sex means a more unhappy man. We now have an unhappy relationship.

Keep frame.

648262 · 2015-05-13T07:32:32+00:00

I think it's a great way to start the end of the relationship.

pimpology69 · 2015-05-13T03:01:30+00:00

Amused mastery. Plates should be kept causal and light-hearted, not serious and solemn. Never take their shit seriously, keep on teasing them like an annoying older brother.

bradyo2 · 2015-05-13T10:57:40+00:00

Two simple reasons.

Hearing you bitch and moan is a huge turn off for women. Which women are going to be sexually attracted to a man who whines about his feelings?
What women say they want and what they actually want are two entirely different things. If you take any of what she says in these 'therapy' sessions ("I wish you would be more open with you feelings!") seriously, you're on the fast road to single city.

grubek · 2015-05-13T02:19:43+00:00

Why would any worthy women want to act like your mother?

But there is some kernel of truth in that you should take care of your partner, we would disagree in the way to go about that.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-05-13T02:42:46+00:00

You cannot be an adequate therapist and in a relationship

caius_iulius_caesar · 2015-05-13T08:30:34+00:00

Therapists aren't allowed to screw their patients because the therapeutic relationship might enable them to exploit their patients.

Think about that.

[deleted] · 2015-05-13T14:37:41+00:00

My mother always tells me your partner isn't your therapist. If you're having issues, discuss it with a professional or your friends. It's exhausting to be listening and consoling someone. Ignore all the bullshit about being weak or plates, or whatever people are saying here. Imagine if your best friend is constantly unloading their worries and issues on to you. What would you do? What would you eventually think of them?

Title	All couples should be each other's therapists. What are the Red Pill reasons to disagree with this?
Author	RedOkra
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	May 13, 2015 1:27 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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