Unsuccessful

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-02-01T10:29:26+00:00

You went out so that's a success. Next time push a bit harder. Go step by step.

JarsOfJewels · 2020-02-01T18:31:27+00:00

I have done exactly this before! My first time, I felt embarrassed to be out alone. It was difficult chatting to strangers and I felt as though everyone was there in their groups and I didn’t really fit in anywhere, so I went home.

My second time, I had a mentality of “unless I make the effort to mix with people, I’m going home feeling unsuccessful.” I forced myself to get out of my comfort zone (all while sober - of course a few drinks will help to make this easier) and chat to new people. Slowly but surely this gets easier but you have to make sure that you put yourself out there and chat to people in order for the next time to be easier. Eventually you’ll be meeting dozens of people per night and you’ll have mates to go out with any night of the week :)

Hubblenobbin · 2020-02-02T11:06:02+00:00

Nights like that will happen. Keep going. It's like getting in shape, half the battle is showing up to the gym.

Title	Unsuccessful
Author	virgin__mojito
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	February 1, 2020 7:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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