How many of you guys can say you have gotten approached by a girl because she was attracted to you?

smoothmax · 2020-02-07T02:13:39+00:00

Happened to me a few times over the years. Nearly always after I had been performing onstage. Once at a TV show taping, and a couple of times when playing in bands at bars.

I wasn't able to turn the contacts into dates and I don't think it's a good strategy to wait to be approached. Just take it as a compliment and continue to learn and practice normal game where you approach women.

Oh wait there is one thing that happened when I was 16. During a house party this girl that I actually had a crush on got me alone in her room, grabbed me, started kissing me and told me she thought I was cute and she really liked me. That turned into a 1.5 year relationship.

It happens but not nearly enough to make it part of a strategy or even to wish for or worry about.

Lord_Augastus · 2020-02-07T02:29:34+00:00

Yeah, but usually its just a girl that I am not interested in, so I dont realise as I am not paying attention to any signals. When I do I sort of feel very good, but at the same time i dont want to lead her on. Usually girls that approach and dont get an immediate validation for their 'approach' are quick to play hard to get and aloof and cold shouldered lol

ilikepie145 · 2020-02-07T01:59:45+00:00

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ilikepie145 · 2020-02-07T02:43:01+00:00

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Insaneflirt_max · 2020-02-07T03:05:10+00:00

It happens but I'd rather take action myself

quinnmcd · 2020-02-07T04:30:11+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Title	How many of you guys can say you have gotten approached by a girl because she was attracted to you?
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Comments	16
Date	February 7, 2020 1:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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