3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you

AlphaWolfVince42 · 2020-02-19T08:30:22+00:00

Brother, I'm gonna be very honest with you.

The introduction hyped me up with the whole effort as the currency for investments in relationships, approachs and how to increase it through behaviour. I thought you might elaborate more on that part of behavior rather than just showing value.

Your post is good, factual and helpful for new comers. But I feel like showing value has been spoken about alot on this subreddit.

Will be looking forward to your reply tho.

0dineye · 2020-02-19T07:24:36+00:00

This leaves me with one question. What are 'social skills' and how does one develop them?

Xazax310 · 2020-02-19T11:48:45+00:00

This is a great reason I suggest to have hot friends that you DON’T try to bone. You can use them as tools to get the other women to recognize your social value. This means sometimes you have to swallow your pride and not try to bone a girl on purpose, or accept that a girl has friend zoned you.

I would say to this, that it's a girl you know is "hot" but not one you're attracted too. There are plenty of girls that are this, but one I wouldn't bother to bone because they're not my preference. I wouldn't friend zone a girl you're actually attracted too.

iam_kumar · 2020-02-19T08:27:01+00:00

2 pointers:

There is this funny thing called oxytocin that will try to guide your decisions and assumptions if you ever find that butterfly in tummy feeling. Don't fall for that. It will try to rationalize everything in favour of the girl. Never trust your gut(emotions) in guiding your decisions.
Girls are better at assessing scope for any kind of relationship with men (short/long). No matter how much you try (sooner it will turn you being needy) if she doesn't want to commit/invest she won't.

bishop_larue · 2020-02-19T08:39:50+00:00

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HopperCraft · 2020-02-19T15:16:30+00:00

Tough luck for young Ivan...

Not Chubby Anymore Ivan

Thanks I feel attacked... /s

It was a wonderful read though!

BurnablesOnMondays · 2020-02-20T04:14:37+00:00

Now how do you get girls to chase you without dropping you? When I try these techniques, I just get ghosted. Or used. At the moment I have three girls "chasing" me: One is a fellow expat who recently moved here and is lonely/culture-shocked, one I frequently sext with but will never commit to a date (90% certain she's using me to get wet so she can fuck other guys who are more attractive/richer than I am), and the other is a model who keeps inviting me to her events (using me because I'm the only attractive, socially calibrated person who ever goes to them). The few that chase me chase me for reasons other than wanting me to give them a mind-blowing orgasm.

Vansh298 · 2020-02-20T05:51:05+00:00

Well said

2020-02-19T03:12:01+00:00

Gold

2020-02-19T05:35:05+00:00

Title	3 things I think are important if you want women to chase you
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Upvotes	121
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Date	February 19, 2020 1:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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