My Ex-Girlfriend invited me to her house. How should I act?(How to escalate with an Ex)

2020-03-18T15:01:06+00:00

I mean it seems pretty obvious to me.

She’s basically running her own game on you, and possibly trying to fuck with your head. So ask yourself, what does she really have to offer you? Sexual favors/her body/affection. That’s what she’ll use as a lure and reward, to manipulate you like most girls do. That’s their game. You just can’t care, which will strip her of her only power.

She’s no more special to you than any of the other girls you talk to, no matter what happens. Don’t take her back.

The real power is in whoever needs the other less. Nothing makes a girl more thirsty than a guy that doesn’t need her, and that other girls want to fuck.

quinnmcd · 2020-03-18T16:37:32+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

GeeseCTM · 2020-03-26T19:36:28+00:00

Exactly the type of post I'd expect from you.

appmanga · 2020-03-18T15:09:54+00:00

You shouldn't be attempting any type of moves. If she wants you, let her make the move. You're really setting yourself up to be her "break in case of emergency". Do you want that? Do you really need that? You're going to get strung along until she finds who wants to replace you with. Stop holding out hope and be real about your situation.

Good luck.

Title	My Ex-Girlfriend invited me to her house. How should I act?(How to escalate with an Ex)
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Comments	9
Date	March 18, 2020 2:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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