Guys how can i know which of these tactics to use in the moment?

IrisBlack25 · 2020-04-06T01:42:30+00:00

1.Push pull- Example: I don't like the color green but you wear nice

2.Disqualifiers- Redflags,things that disqualify a girl for a relationship whether short/long term.

3.Frame Control- As man you must be confident even if things don't go your way. Eg.You said something sexual and she didnt take well. You don't mope on feeling sorry you said that.

Qualification- A girl must qualify to earn your attention. Time is priceless.Therefore, if a girl doesn't meet your standards you drop her.Eg. She must be feminine,submissive, must show high interest,must have good girlfriends /no male friends,phone passive( less/ no social media ..posting selfie freak),no children, little/ no tattoos,must know how to cook,etc

5.Backturns and takeaways- These are strategies of GAME.When girls tease, go off topic, get distracted, or turn mean, a takeaway may be in order. ... e.g., when she tells you she doesn't date men like you, roll your eyes or ... You may have trouble linking back up with her.Also don't answer all her questions directly .Girls love mystery so do not be an open book.Example What work do you do? She wants to know how much money you are making?You say "What do think? Or take a guess.

smoothmax · 2020-04-06T02:10:29+00:00

I just watched part of a Todd V night game infield and I found him far too tense and his banter was too canned. He seems like a cocky college freshman with high functioning ADHD trying to prove that he can pull chicks to his lil nerdy freshman buddies.

His voice is kinda high pitched and tense sounding and he seemed anxious to jump on everything the girl said and always have banter ready to throw back at her.

If that's kinda like you and you're watching Todd thinking, "yeah that could be me" then maybe you should try to copy his game ... if it suits your personality.

I prefer a chill style where you're happy to let the girl talk sometimes, and you're not getting all tense wondering if you're going to get shit tested, and whether you had a "dominant" comeback or whatever. A good way to show dominance is to not give a shit if she puts you down or baffles you with banter. You can just smile and appreciate her wit ... enjoy the moment. I'd go as far as to say, if you want to have cool guy game and not ADHD game, smiling and chilling should be your normal default.

If you're relaxed and not in your head, you'll often find that witty comments will come to you unbidden, when you need them. If you're in your head trying to figure out "should I do a backturn and takeaway?" then your voice is going to go up, your body language will be tense (stiff posture, wrinkled forehead) and even if you give her the funniest takeaway zinger in history, it's the tenseness she'll notice not your zingy comeback.

Todd is really popular and lots of guys say they've learned from him. I wouldn't tell you to stop looking at his stuff but you should be aware of different schools of game and then figure out what you can pull off.

OneAttentionPlease · 2020-04-06T12:37:41+00:00

Let me tell you while some of these methods might work they can completely ruin it or shut it down with others. So don't focus too much on enforcing them. It might be helpful to be aware of concepts but don't force them.

Especially that push and pull and teasing. It works for some who like the teasing and challenge but a sensitive one might be confused or even hurt. This can be also understood by guys who had to deal with insecurity which this sub is probably full of. If you are really insecure then any mixed signals can be devastating to your well being and confidence.

Reframing can also be taken the wrong way for some - and I believe a lot of fights and conflicts (in an relationship) happen due to shifting blame/responsibility by reframing.

So be aware of these concepts but don't blindly apply it. It really depends on the type of girl you are deal with.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-04-06T02:47:12+00:00

Any time, required on most girls above a 6.
If she does anything that you dislike, will only work if she has some sort of investment in you beforehand.
Every fucking time she is saying something that doesn't help you guys to get to know each others deeper and get to the sexy part. If she is talking about the weather for 15 minutes, that's your mistake. Be aloof, but on your path (that goes towards sex).
Before you guys fuck, to give her a good reason why you like her and that there is a "deepest connection".
Only when the McDonald's is full and you can't find a seat. (seriously what does that even mean).
Whenever you or her finish your sentence you wait 3s for her in case she wants to say something more.
Every time she gives you a shit test.

IrisBlack25 · 2020-04-06T01:49:38+00:00

5.Silence and space- You sometimes chose not answer question and laugh it off.

6.Shit testing and passing- Girls do this unconsciously and consciously.Example: Before you have sex with her.She will be like I don't have sex on the first date. If you can really seduce her she will end up in bed with you.Also she can ask ," Do you love me?".

Title	Guys how can i know which of these tactics to use in the moment?
Author	anevskii
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Date	April 6, 2020 12:29 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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