Can having a lot of girl friends help you get a girlfriend?

smoothmax · 2020-04-13T15:59:08+00:00

Yes, if all those girlfriends see you as an attractive, sexual guy.

No if the girls see you as a eunuch in the harem.

I worked with a guy once who was charming and funny. Not gay or effeminate in any way ... but very un-sexual in his vibe. He literally had a harem of the hottest 3 or 4 admins in the company who would eat lunch with him every day, go for walks after lunch, and drop by his office to chat and gossip in between. Unless he was the most sly, sneaker seducer in history I'm pretty sure he was getting zero pussy. If he even wanted any, which was not clear at all.

In college though I had a friend who was the best natural seducer I ever saw. He had a harem of "friends", he banged some of them, and they would pass him around to some degree. Even now sometimes I see the guy, we talk about college days, he tells stories and I'm like, "What?? You banged HER too??" Lol. He was just a sexual guy in the way he looked at women and talked to them. Never missed a chance to make a sexual wisecrack, in a self-amusing way that girls never found creepy.

jamezmt · 2020-04-13T15:32:11+00:00

Yeah I would 100% agree. Not only does being friends with girls open up your social circle to more girls but it makes you better at communicating with girls and more understanding of their behaviour. Plus, a guy who is only friends with other guys could pose as a red flag to a potential girlfriend

MrMemper · 2020-04-13T17:50:22+00:00

A lot of female friends around (that you’re not fucking) says you’re another pussy in the hen house. Might as well be the token gay guy.

Ideally you want a roster of girls that you fuck on rotation. The women should not be kept as a secret from the others. This will make them work harder for your attention provided you are fucking and sucking their mind properly.

Why? Bc women are more competitive than men are. And it’s simple consumerism: men and women alike often can’t judge value on their own and use the judgement of others to make decisions.

When it comes to a sexual partner a woman that has a man that other women wish they were fucking, makes her man more valuable in her eyes due to the explanation above.

Some girls don’t care that they have a dude who isn’t desired by other women but it’s not common.

Most girls want to say in many subversive or overt ways: “neener neener neener, look at the man I’VE got that youuu dooont!”

quinnmcd · 2020-04-13T22:41:36+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

2020-04-13T23:42:33+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Title	Can having a lot of girl friends help you get a girlfriend?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	28
Date	April 13, 2020 3:15 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g0kupy/can_having_a_lot_of_girl_friends_help_you_get_a/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/can-having-a-lot-of-girl-friends-help-you-get-a.1493948 https://theredarchive.com/post/1493948

Comments