Hey whatsup guys.
With the quarantine and all, i'm sure a lot of you are worrying about how to keep your leads warm so they don't lose interest. Today i'm here with a few tips i've accumulated over the years to keep things warm with girls over the phone.
- Don't be too available. It's easy for her to lose interest when there's no more mystery about you, when you are too available. You can have hours when you're texting her all the time, especially when the conversation is good, but then you can leave some space (1 day or more depending on situation) after. This will create a vacuum effect and make her think about you.
- Keep your texts interesting. This is a skill that you learn with experience but the conversation shouldn't be boring for you or the girl. The point it becomes boring is when you need to either pick it back up or stop texting. A lot of guys don't have a life so look at the girl as a texting buddy to keep them entertained. This is extremely unattractive!
- Use IG and social media - this is an amazing tool especially if you can make high value stories on IG. Post stories of you doing cool and fun shit which is a bit difficult during the quarantine but you can still demonstrate value in different ways.
- Get her curious. Don't voluntarily tell her too much about your boring day. Leave some mystery for her imagination. Leave enough space for her to ask questions. She should be curious about when you will text, how your day was as opposed to knowing you will respond to her instantly and always there.
- 5. For this one which is an extremely powerful but more unique technique, I use a real life text conversation as example to illustrate in my video,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yu98fz4vHw
Click on the video above to learn the technique.
That's it for today guys. I hope you got something useful of it it and are staying safe during the quarantine!
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