I ask here because I love how no bullshit this sub is, and was a resource for me when I was younger to understand certain dynamics, but I’m at a loss for the long term end.

I don’t have any issue meeting, connecting, or forming a relationship. I’m not looking to hop Into another soon but when I do I just want to make sure I’m making the right call.

I’m 30. In no rush to marry or have kids if ever but If it happened I’d step up to the plate.

Generally my relationships last 4-8 months, and while it’s usually great I’ve never quite understood if it’s me causing the ending or my choice in lady.

I’ve had comments like : this relationship feels to healthy etc, and i don’t have deep feelings for a while, while its the opposite for them.

As soon as I do it seems like it ends, and i cant place it. I hate playing emotionally manipulative games, and I feel thats what people want sometimes, but i cant. I’m just happy, honest, and really have others best interest in mind but it seems so doubted