Should I aim low for a beginner?

ABZOLUTEZER0x_x · 2020-04-24T05:37:59+00:00

“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars.” - Norman Vincent Peale

ILovemigos1234 · 2020-04-24T05:29:36+00:00

My opinion, you can start cold approaching and talking to less attractive girls than you like. Keep them around a little to learn how to text, learn how to talk, and if you find one that’s not but ugly, you can use her to up your sex game. Once again this is just my opinion. I think your self esteem would take a bigger hit if you gave an attractive girl a bad night of sex and she tells you, or if you get completely rejected by attractive girls when you start off approaching. Start with whatever you’re comfortable with whether that be 4s or 5s, and gradually progress.

Neotheone412 · 2020-04-24T06:49:12+00:00

Start with trying a few cold approaches in daytime. Try getting a girl number when you are in the gym or at the bus stop. Don't aim too high for now like thinking about pulling for sex or night game. Do maybe three approaches in two weeks. Set the bar really low. You will feel very happy once you done your first approach even if she said no, or getting your first number. That will be a huge confidence boost. Don't read or watch too much into pickup when you are still a beginner when you don't even have much reference to compare to in the first place. That will only complicate your interaction with women and make you overthink everything. It's like watching Steph Curry net a 3 pointers when you can't even carry a ball properly to begin with. Three or two approaches might sound easy and insignificant, but wait until you try it. One single approach can feel like moving mountain on my bad days. My journey with women really started to kick off after i done my first couple of approaches at daytime. Don't worry about going to bars or club right now. Those social environment is too much pressure for a newbie to handle. If you can't even talk to a girl at a bus stop, how are you gonna entertain a group of super hot girls in a club and make your target girl and her friends to like you. And keep in mind, there are other guys who are also looking for girls that they might be taller or bigger than you. Start with doing small approaches a couple times in the first month. A little tip, and, It's a bonus when you get a wingman or a friend who also like approaching women. It's much more easier to approach a stranger when your buddy is right next to you telling you to go for it. You can still come back to him if you fucked it up.

HermesGonzalos2008 · 2020-04-24T12:48:26+00:00

Please don’t use average looking girls as “practice” to work your way up.

How would you feel if a woman was on a date with you and she tells you in the end.

“The guy I really want he’s a bit unattainable, so you’ll do for now, until I can approach the men I REALLY wanna approach.”

No need to use women as “Anmo” for your target practice, and you should ENJOY the excitement of approaching a beautiful woman, and if they really want to they WILL go out with you.

quinnmcd · 2020-04-24T15:23:07+00:00

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Title	Should I aim low for a beginner?
Author	Goldfielddid911
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	April 24, 2020 5:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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