There's something that happens to men when they get a woman who they really like. The hotter she is, and the more unattractive they are, the more jealous and paranoid that this woman is cheating on them.

For the men reading this post, you say you want a 9 or 10, but if you get her, do you have the emotional strength to be with a 9 or 10? Can you check her without the fear of losing her? How would you feel if you saw a man with chiseled features talking to her in a very casual way? Would you get jealous that she wants to fuck him... even though she is answering a simple question?

I wrote a post called Don't Let These Women Finesse You that talks about some of the ways women finesse their boyfriends and husbands, but we think it's a normal part of being in a serious relationship. Something to look out for when you get into a relationship or trying to make things more serious with a specific woman you're dating.

This is a sign that you're not ready to be in a serious relationship with a 9 or 10. This is why I say you want to treat women like they're regular... no matter how hot they are. The best way you can do this is to surround yourself with hot women so their beauty can feel normal to you. You want to feel like interacting with and fucking hot women is a normal thing for you. This doesn't mean you only go for the 9s and 10s, but when you're surrounded by these women, you'll notice that getting a 7 or 8 is not so unachievable.

When a man is not use to being around beautiful women, and there's finally one who gives him the time of day, in his mind he thinks he's lucky and wants to do everything in his power to keep her. His friends aren't a big help either. They'll say things like,

"You're lucky to have a hot woman like her. Don't fuck it up"

Well, when this man has shit like this running through his head, he's gonna be walking on eggshells to avoid getting on her bad side. If she leaves the house after an argument, he thinks she's gonna cheat on him with a dude with a foot-long dick and some of his friends.

This is a sign of a lack of emotional strength and game. When a man has game, he can replace a woman either immediately or somewhere down the line. He knows that the only reason why he feels this way is because she's hot. If an average-looking woman did this, he wouldn't be so fearful. The better your game gets, the more self-aware you become. You understand your strengths and build up on them. You also understand your weaknesses and willing to bring them to the surface. When you bring them to the surface, you can solve them.

The best thing a man can do if he likes a woman is to build up that desire in her. If she's a girl you want to make things serious, you want her to like you as much or more than you like her. This way it solidifies your chances. Control your emotions. Use logic to control your emotions. Logically you know what you're suppose to do. You've read a ton of Reddit posts, seen a lot of videos, and read a lot of books on how to attract women. Knowledge is not the problem... it's your emotions. Emotionally, you feel vulnerable to a woman's beauty. Emotionally, you don't want to get on her bad side, even though you learned that women are attracted to men with an edge from more than one source.

When you keep your emotions in check, you are more clear-minded, and know what you need to do if things don't go well. You don't let your emotions get in the way if you need to check any disrespectful behavior. Instead of making excuses if she actually does cheat on you, you dump her.