Can you please critique my watsapp convo with this chick ?

stickfiguresk · 2015-05-28T23:37:15+00:00

No, for two reasons: 1. The formating is shit. Seriously, this is like elective torture. 2. You don't seem to be implementing anything from TRP (from what little bit I did read). Try one of the main subs, if you're not going to bother with our text ettiquite. Or read the sidebar and start over.

karmasutur3 · 2015-05-28T23:48:21+00:00

Ok , here we go , line by line:

WHAT THE FUCK DUDE.

No more texting unless it's for meetup logistics.

What are you 12? You're 27 .

27

27.

This whole interaction is just attention for her. What are you getting out of this?

NOTHING.

When you give away attention and validation without getting anything in return you prove to the girl that you are not worth anything.

THis conversation MIGHT be appropriate after you've had sex. MAYBE. No, it's not, but at least it might be somewhere in the ballpark.

This conversation before ? You are sunk.

THIS LINE ALONE could have done it:

Ur eyes r like a beautiful lake i jus wana drown in them

First of all, spelling like you're 13 isn't attractive. Second of all, Don't validate women until they give you what you want. Third, DONT USE IM or TEXT again for anything other than logistics.

Period.

Sorry to get angry. If you were my boy, I would slap you upside your head. Seriously. You need to be slapped, for your own good.

Arrange in person meetings with girls, Then escalate, and then come back and tell us how it goes. Let us know if you fail to accomplish those things.

RemyPrice · 2015-05-28T23:47:35+00:00

It's terrible. Go back to the basics.

seever · 2015-05-29T01:36:26+00:00

Hey, I'm not gonna rate your Convo since you got bashed, instead I'm going to simplify texting for you to see how easy it actually is. I'm Writing a book for myself and a few friends of mine that really need it so it's stupid simple.

This is just thoughts turned into texts on a document so there's no formatting or anything official like, just like a scrapbook, Hope it helps.

Texting Methods:

Texting is like a window to your world, your situation and the feelings that you have. Texting is like a wall between you and her, there's only a small hole in that wall that connects you both. it let's you talk and show eachother what you want. And you can use that greatly. you can show her whatever by using that hole. show her what you do when she's away from you. your "normal" life. You need to use text in two ways only:

A) Easy Going - Build up emotions & make her feel connected.

B) Hard Ass - Setting up a place to meet and it's timing.

A) Easy Going: this is used if you can't see her everyday. if the girl is nice and you want a good experince with her. not just sex but a connection with the sex.

Using this method is easy, and pleasing but too much of it will make you her bestfriend that she can't find another one like him. so you need to be carful balance is key between easy going and hard ass.

B) Hard Ass: This is still used if you can't see her everyday. if the girl is nice, but sluty, the type that has experince, she's been with guys and have seen a few dicks.

The ways that she replies:

"Haha lol" : She's disinterested, you need to either step up your game, or go cold and start over later.
Asking questions "how did you...." : She's Interested, wants to know you, whatever she asks you answer vaguely and indirectly
Not answering: She's maybe busy or completely done with your shit, move on and don't wait for her answer. don't be the puppy waiting for their master to come home at the end of the day.

Texting techniques:

1- Cocky Comedy 2- Mirroring 3- Questions 4- Dissaproval & amused

1- Cocky Comedy: Funny stuff that makes you look and seem high nosed, like she's lucky to be even talking to you.

When doing this you show it as a joking matter and she'll know it. that's ok because it shows you're confedint enough to fuck around and not affraid to show yourself In the right way.

Examples: These are a few examples that you can use, these are to show you the right idea of what i mean. in the future you should make some lines of your own

1- (After you got her number, Facebook) "Congratualtions you just got the most important number of your life."

2- (She says she saw something that reminded her of you) "Yeah like i wasn't on your mind already"

3- "Today was wierd, whenever i walked i saw panties flying for me and chicks screaming.. i feel like a peice of meat"

4- (she says something in the lines of "I don't know") yeah only pretty people do, too bad you'll never know how we feel.

2- Mirroring: this is used when you have the Easy going mode on. you ask her a question or when she tells you about some experince that she had then. you'll mirror that feeling (connect with that experince) by using the same feeling she had at that time.

this will make her feel closer to you and make you stand out from the rest that don't understand her. this is very powerful if used at the right amount

1- Her- "I went to chalak's cafe today, what a great and calm place" you- "IKR, his place is so good, going there in the morning having a cup of tea alone while reading a book.. we need more places like that"

Her- "Yeah exactly, it's that kind of place that gives you a relaxing vibe, like you are there for your own intimate time.."

Him- "do you need that often? some alone time for your thoughts?"

Her- "Yeah, whenever i need to relax and take a day for myself i want to go somewhere open, far and calm. do whatever i want as slow or fast as i want to. sometimes it's hard to find such places like that"

Him- "what do you do to relax other than going out for tea"

Her- "I read books, listen to music and..."

Him- "what?"

Her- "Promise not to laugh.."

Him- "I'll try"

Her- "when no one's home i go out and buy lots and lots of junk food, put on a movie and have two hours just for myself. i know it's unhealthy but i can't help it. it feeels zo guuud"

Him- "chocolate and a romantic movie.. all you're missing is me and you'd have the perfect day"

Her- "that actually Sounds good, but only if you bring your own food"

him- "Serously... blah blah blah"

See the girl here expressed something simple. she said where did she go earleir that day,(Chalak) all the guy did was take something out of that and express how good it feels.(Tea, being alone, calmness) of course she loves it because he's talking about what she did today (She feels connected) and then she answered with a bit of a longer message. then he used something from that message to make a question, she now feels connected AND that he's INTERESTED on what is going on with her, he didn't text just for a date. but to check on her and make her feel good. she then tells him something about herself that she does alone, then he uses a cocky line to include himself, she agrees and there it goes..

3- Question: This is the best way to get to know the girl, and be different from the other guys that she has talked with. When i say questions i don't mean, "Where do you live"/ "When should we go out?"/ "How was your day" NO! these are conversation killers they get answered with a one or two texts and then you are stuck with nothing to talk about. i have a system that can fix that, it's called F.O.R.D, No not the car company dumbass it an acronym for Family: How many sisters do you have VS. Are you closer to your mom or dad? Ocupation: What is your job? VS. What did you want to be when you were young? Recreational: Dreams: .....sup VS. If there was no money, school or work. where would you like to be right now in life?

4- Dissaproval: Look everyone that has texted her so far was kissing her ass, making it boring for her. imagine you get a friend that approves of everything that you do: going out? sure. you lost a fist fight to another guy? it's alright he cheated Drinking vodka before a test? Go for it. Driving 120 mph on a 60mph. Why not? at the begining it feels good to have support but then it gets boring, whatever you do they will aprove of it. it's easy to impress them. so you go looking for better friends, that won't agree to everything and have their own opinions. its the same with her, but to her it's not friends. it's guys trying to kiss her ass all day telling her that everything she does is amazing, she's the best and no other girl is like her.

But you Won't, She'll wonder why, ask herself and keep thinking about it. she'll try to impress you i mean if 9 guys said she was amazing why wouldn't the 10th do the same? so she'll start chasing for that approval of yours. that's what's gonna make you different from the rest. after that every time a guy approves of her action she will think of you saying "But the 10th didn't. why? why?"

now i don't mean always be an ass and be unimpressed or even say it directly no you use it with being 'Amused'

being amused is something powerful too, it's a state of mind that they feel when they hear you or read your texts, think of it like you're a prince that is sitting and the world in front of you is nothing but a show, something amusing. this is how you show them your disapproval. by being amused. it shows that you have experience and that it takes a bit to be impressed when it comes to girls.

Anyway, I did a few attempts to format the begining by using reddit, but the rest is up to you to figure out. Sorry for the shitty english it's my third tongue. Hope i helped. Feedback would be awesome.

bread_pakoda · 2015-05-29T00:31:16+00:00

What did she mean when she said this :

Her: So u looking for one night stand?

Me: I m open to anything lol

Her: Is tht a yes?

Me: Ofcourse it is

Her: Ya but i m not tht kinda gurl

I thought she wanted a one night stand, thats why she asked . I was so confused by this ?

bread_pakoda · 2015-05-29T02:17:17+00:00

I did not mention this before. This was our 3rd texting conversation. The first conversation didnt last that long. She went radiosilent for a week. I forgot about her & then out of the blue she started texting me that she was in pain due to her periods & horny etc etc. The conversation escalate, and she had called me, I was listening to her while she was rubbing herself, & I was texting her. She stopped after I told her that I came, when in fact I wasnt even horny. I was just pretending to be horny. This was day before yesterday.

Now the third conversation happened last night.

So I guess the next step for me is to setup a meeting with her and see how things go or if she is even interested.

And She mentioned about her meds which included Escitalopram which is for depression and anxiety disorder. So I dont know if this chick is crazy or not. She is Indian btw, I am also Indian.

maxisacatt · 2015-05-29T03:17:59+00:00

This was hard to read man. From what I could make out, you're just thirsty and it shows. All you did was validate her ego and place her on a pedestal. Nothing RP about this at all. You'd make a nice orbiter for her string along.

Carbone · 2015-05-29T05:15:36+00:00

WTF is that shit ?

Text are for logistic.

You put some of her reply in bold ... who the fuck are you and from which reference you're able to judge she's interested in you from that ?

You had sex over her picture or what not ? LOL WTF.

Read SideBar and cut contact with that chicks you got burned.

Circlelurker90 · 2015-05-29T18:23:47+00:00

Bravo on this fresh baked roll bread, sir.

Title	Can you please critique my watsapp convo with this chick ?
Author	bread_pakoda
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Date	May 28, 2015 11:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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Texting Methods:

The ways that she replies:

Texting techniques:

Anyway, I did a few attempts to format the begining by using reddit, but the rest is up to you to figure out. Sorry for the shitty english it's my third tongue. Hope i helped. Feedback would be awesome.