How can I develop the same chat/banter that I have when I have a had a few alcoholic drinks, so I can be similar when I'm sober?

revente · 2020-05-07T17:25:59+00:00

Go for some improv classes. They are great at teaching how to shine under social stress.

Depressedkid1998 · 2020-05-07T13:57:22+00:00

I feel the same maybe i should get a couple beers before going on dates

2020-05-07T14:48:15+00:00

I'm like this too. For me I accept that that's part of who I am; I'm quiet, contemplative, kind of mysterious, deliberate but lowkey sarcastic and goofy. That's my brand, my authentic self.

On the other hand you have to learn to use what you have to your advantage and be able to harness it to progress interactions. You have to learn to have fun/amuse yourself when you interact with others. Which goes back to being outcome independent.

We everything cause we dont want to lose but if we change out view of winning we cant lose. If you have fun you win.

Liberaler · 2020-05-07T22:59:53+00:00

but I can come across as weird sometimes

I bet you come across as even more weird when your drunk - you just don't care in that situation ...

Alcohol does not come with a magic that makes you eloquent - it just relaxes you. Practice telling the truth: You don't have to be impolite but try to tell people more and more what's really on your mind, even if it's provocative or confrontational. This will automatically make you more relaxed and probably funnier.

But the truth is you don't have to be funny to be liked and loved by others ...

Reduce your time in front of your computer/smartphone - spending too much time in the digital word will make you gaga and antisocial - it will take your natural charisma away ...

Maff92 · 2020-05-07T10:48:04+00:00

Nothing matters and we're all gonna die. Let loose

Title	How can I develop the same chat/banter that I have when I have a had a few alcoholic drinks, so I can be similar when I'm sober?
Author	claret_n_blue
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Date	May 7, 2020 10:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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