How to get a girl to commit?

broomhead · 2020-05-16T10:06:33+00:00

You guys hung out once.. it’s not happening until you spend more time together. You pushing the subject makes you look clingy that after seeing someone once you want to tie them down and lock them in a cage.

2020-05-16T10:18:11+00:00

How can girl B make you commit to a relationship with her?

If the answer is that she can't, what makes you think that you can make girl A change her mind?

only_cait · 2020-05-16T06:24:46+00:00

My dad always told me that if you “love” two people always go with the one you met second. This is because if you truly “loved” the first one you would have fallen for the second. Not saying this is love but I hope you get what I mean

fastingbear12 · 2020-05-16T11:14:18+00:00

There’s some bad advice on this thread. OP, time is on your side. There is nothing you can do to make either girl do what you want to do. I’m not religious but,

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

This is where the wisdom comes in. What you can change is by appealing to both girls while keeping your options open. Only commit to them (if you want to) when they commit to you. I’ve found that girls tend to sleep with one guy at a time rather than a bunch at the same time. So don’t worry about girl A sleeping around if things are going smooth — just be very deliberate and careful about your interactions with her and make sure you’re always doing/saying what is going to help you in the long term. Whatever you do, don’t act attached or needy, otherwise you’re fucked. Act on your training, not your emotions. Good luck.

ThaGhost32 · 2020-05-16T11:43:59+00:00

When a woman says no, it means no. Trying to push her to take it further will only make her want to get as far away from you as possible. Trust me, I learned this the hard way. If girl B is open to it and you like her, I’d say continue getting to know her. She already told you what she wants instead of beating around the bush and that’s automatic brownie points in my book

DarkCr3ation · 2020-05-16T13:19:56+00:00

Good luck my guy. No girl is just one mans girl anymore.

Ket_om · 2020-05-16T13:30:58+00:00

You want her to catch feelings? Give her reason to. Hangout with her more and have a great time enjoy your time with her. Continue doing stuff and having sex that's all you can do but that's also the best way to give her reason to catch feelings. The chance is if you're calm cool and fun and seem to not care too much she'll catch feelings back and probably hard too.

iwillthrowthisawaym · 2020-05-16T07:05:10+00:00

You cant force her to want a relationship. If it was me, youd just push me further away by trying, while creating drama.

If you dont wanna get your heart broken, hurt someone else or just pretend to be someone youre not, I suggest leaving them both. You just have to get over Girl 1, and it sounds you dont like Girl 2 enough for that.

ang-555-ci · 2020-05-16T11:34:38+00:00

You all are young. You will push girl A away by seeming to needy. Girl B seems like she's ready to settle down,but again age plays a big role. You guys should explore life and find who you are. Enjoy life. Have fun with girl A. Sometimes feelings come along without expecting it to happen.

beautifesque · 2020-05-16T11:55:04+00:00

No means no.

You can't just make someone be with you and not sleep with anyone else because that's what YOU want. Girl A told you what she wanted. Don't like it? Move on.

daddyenrique · 2020-05-16T16:55:40+00:00

Women are the gatekeepers for sex. Men are the gatekeepers of a relationship. What you are exhibiting is needy behavior; highly unattractive to women. Don’t try to push the relationship and live your life. Lift, eat clean, do cool shit and if she wants to commit she will make it apparent.

Hmurie · 2020-05-21T16:36:31+00:00

It’s simple,

Casually sleep with girl A,

Hang out with girl B, post stuff on SM with girl B girl A will get jealous.

renegade453 · 2020-05-16T09:06:39+00:00

U should behave like being in a relationship with her. Just hang out with her as often as possible, give her that good sex, she might develop something over time. Thats your only chance.

stonedfox8 · 2020-05-16T09:06:04+00:00

Please send us pics of both girls and a little info on their personality. This will help us decide.

the_manofsteel · 2020-05-16T10:12:08+00:00

Don’t think about commitment until your dating someone over 30, women are wild and free until that age

LeBabuin · 2020-05-16T09:08:50+00:00

Ghost both of them and see the reaction the girl that reaches you first is the needy one. The girl that contacts second or not at all is the more I-have-options kind of person.

With the first (girl b in your situation) will make you feel good about yourself, boost your confidence and self esteem. Having a girl that looks up to you is good for the present but doesn't lift you higher. I'd say the girl a is the opposite. Will learn more from her.

I'd say hint at both of them that you see other people and see their reactions. Don't be afraid to steer the pot. If girl b seems to OK with that marry her. If girl A seems not to be cool about it then dump her.

Steer the pot, play with dynamics even if both dump you will learn a lot

Title	How to get a girl to commit?
Author	Sladeshot5
Upvotes	22
Comments	22
Date	May 16, 2020 6:21 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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