How to think of yourself as a "prize" and yet not come across as an asshole/rude/impolite/egoistic?

MarkysaurusRex · 2020-05-21T04:48:36+00:00

Confidence is in believing in yourself, in that your better than the person you were before. Not that your bigger than somone else or a girl. Yes guys take the lead and have to understand that they are a prize value. But dont let that go so far to your head that every girl is now beneath you. Try settling trying out relationship and seeing where you match, and finding the right one.

StephenDawg · 2020-05-21T05:01:00+00:00

An easy way to not be "too polite" is just to react less. What a lot of people think of as politeness is really just kowtowing and genuflecting - and that is unattractive. But I think it's important to understand that a person can be kind and polite and still exude strength and confidence - sometimes this detail is lost.

2020-05-21T07:23:35+00:00

I dont care how other people view me.

If me being distant and not that engaging somehow makes me an asshole to other people, let it be so.

I'm not gonna become some emotional bitch just because a person was offended by my personality.

So dont think too much about it.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-05-21T10:17:13+00:00

Just think a pussy guy who lives only for serving women, and make them all the favors e.t.c. Then think yourself not doing that, not care to much about one girl but do care to get laid. Think that you want to know if the girl is interesting exept her attractiveness. Qualify her: You are pretty! Are you any adventurous?

Think you have a lot of choises. That makes you the prize, immediatelly. Preselction! Fake it, that you have banged a lot of girls.

Think you are Brad Pit. How do you behave at women? Aren't you the prize? Yes. But they are you admirers. You can't be roude with them.

goodasspua · 2020-05-22T04:50:02+00:00

No offense, but don’t act like a chad if you aren’t one. Being cocky and rude only works for top tier looking chads. If your not that, then it’s actually seen as bad behavior by most girls. Those rules are broken for chads.

Girls sometimes make some rules for guys and sometimes absolutely fucks the rules if the guy is one of a kind(chad)

AQuestionOfLust665 · 2020-05-21T04:45:10+00:00

Forget everything you know till today... And for the love of mankind Be Yourself, Casanova. :p.

Title	How to think of yourself as a "prize" and yet not come across as an asshole/rude/impolite/egoistic?
Author	goodasspua
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	May 21, 2020 4:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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