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[–]swaglordobama 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Gym is a place you go almost every day. Your reputation matter since you will be seeing other members regularly. In other words, never, ever creep out people here.
Because the gym is a set-up game location, none of your approaches are cold approaches. You already have exposure effect.
For the above reasons, the gym is an ideal social circle game location. Instead of approaching and hitting on girls at the gym, just start saying hi and smalltalking with them. Build comfort and friendzone them, especially since you're inexperienced and insecure. Having a few female friends will help you become comfortable around women in general.
If you're confused about how to treat a female friend, it's no different than a guy friend.
Set up events / get togethers and invite your female friends, tell them to bring their friends.
Tell your female friends/confidants that you like their friend and they will help you hook up with her.
Just be real and honest about who you are, and where you are in your sex life with them, some might even pity fuck your virginity away and you might get some chill FWBs out of it.
[–]jgtj1998 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Gonna save this comment for future reference if you don’t mind. Thanks for this insight. I appreciate it alot.
[–]swaglordobama 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cheers bro
[–]paddywacknack 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So if I already creeped someone out I should find a new gym?
If you have a reputation there of being the cringy PUA, yeah.
[–]Dwaynedibley24601 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
DO. NOT. HIT. ON. WOMEN. AT. THE. GYM. The gym is not a bar... people want to get their sweat on and get out... WOmen in fact HATE being hit on at the gym... they do not look their best and are generally not into it. DO you want to be trying to take a ride on the incline bench while someone makes inane conversation with you? C'mon man wise the fuck up.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
As a woman who goes to the gym I agree with this lol. OP, if you go for this there’s a good chance you’ll make some women uncomfortable lol
[–]iradi8u 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Gym is a no fly zone unless she’s really dolled up
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even then maybe she came from work and just didn’t take the makeup off lol
yea not the best place to start. find activities to do outdoors and try there
I somewhat agree. Hit on women as they’re leaving the gym. Most of us don’t like being interrupted during the middle of our workouts. If she’s interested, she’ll let you know.
[–]Demon_Angel_Domme 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think this is true for some women but others wear makeup and go more for the selfies than a sweat.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yea but they are not looking to get picked up there find them on tinder
[–]Dwaynedibley24601 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The wearing of makeup is NOT the go ahead signal.
[–]jgtj1998 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think it generally depends on the woman. I’ve seen women being hit on and respond favorably.
[–]GrandMasterB19 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They were into those guys before those guys even hit on them.
You'll learn that the rules can change signifciantly when a woman is already sold on you.
[–]jgtj1998 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bet, thanks for the heads up
[–]iradi8u 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truf
[–]onlyhuman69 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was wondering why do people have to lessen the other person's comments can't you be yourself a woman or a man should show Their true selves do not use other person's advice because that is not the real you you can use other persons is vice to help you what do not do what other people want be yourself and only yourself because eventually they will find out who you really are
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