Is this good

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-06-21T04:54:03+00:00

I agree with the guy who said to keep it simple. Just tell her you’re getting a drink after work and ask her if she wants to tag along. Pretty simple. I will add this though: I find it very valuable to let her know clearly and concisely why you’re asking her out. Could be something as simple as “I find you attractive”. Point is, don’t leave any room for guessing and don’t assume she knows why.

Jock_Status · 2020-06-20T22:00:40+00:00

You’re shy but I know there’s more to you I’m leaving this job soon so get to know me before I go 😈

upward_spiral00 · 2020-06-20T22:13:08+00:00

Just don't trip out and don't plan what to say. Say whatever you want to say and what comes naturally. Find out if she has a boyfriend first, try to screen her during the chit-chat interaction, for example: "hey what do you think, do you miss your loved ones when you are at work?". And if she has a boyfriend she will respond that she misses him. And if she doesn't she would say that she doesn't miss anyone or that she misses her parents/siblings. It's an indirect approach for screening so you know if you should take her out on a date.

Me personally what I would say is something according to this line: "Hey, I know we worked so hard for the company, it was hell of a journey and fun, but the time has come, the power of the universe and the power of the Gods (say it in a fun way with energetic tonality) made me redirect my future goals, I really need to tell you about this entirely". You wait for her reaction (emotional spike) and you grab her number, following with a call and setting up a date.

Good luck.

quinnmcd · 2020-06-21T05:19:12+00:00

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bearmuss · 2020-06-20T22:27:54+00:00

"Hey I think you're a great person and I'm leaving soon ' would you like to get some coffee/pizza/ beer" ,

revente · 2020-06-20T22:39:12+00:00

Don’t overthink it. ‚Hey! Lets grab a drink’

Title	Is this good
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Date	June 20, 2020 9:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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