How many of you were late bloomers?

Herbertlitteraire · 2020-06-24T08:32:34+00:00

That's just negative thinking. A guy can find someone and improve his social skills at any age. I know a guy, who lost his virginity at 35 and now is in a happy relationship. I also know a guy, who is in his late forties and learned in his early forties how to be more extroverted and have big social circles.

It's never too late to reinvent yourself. You're only too fare gone if you decide that you are. Change take effort and is sometimes painful. But it can be done. Face your inner demons. Why shouldn't it be possible?

bultimeter · 2020-06-24T08:09:57+00:00

I'm 25 and never had a relationship, but since got laid at 21, and average of 2 times a year, but lately I'm getting better at talking to girls, and recognising signs. So I think you can still learn it ;) (Sorry for my bad English)

pornodio · 2020-06-24T08:28:15+00:00

I’m a late zoomer 😎

2020-06-24T16:24:28+00:00

Lifelong Virgin until age 29.

It's much harder to learn social skills past mid-twenties.

Pretty much have to dedicate your entire life around it, but it's worth it

BlackGold007 · 2020-06-24T14:40:52+00:00

I was a very late bloomer probably because of culture and Christian values that i found imposed on me.I was to finish school first (24) then date.So i started dating at 26

ANGRY_ASPARAGUS · 2020-06-24T21:38:28+00:00

Didn't really date until 24, had my first serious relationship at 28, which ended when I was 32. Now I'm 37, and very much in my prime. I have an amazing girlfriend now, but it was tons of fun dating and meeting women in the last five years. I learned a lot about myself through heartbreak, and just general social growth. Being in your 30's, when you're young, fit, and confident because you know what you want in your career and in life, is very attractive to women. I wouldn't go back to my 20's if I had the choice.

kingpersnickety · 2020-06-24T10:43:45+00:00

I love this thread. Single 7 years since 2013 with a few hookups and one short situationship. Now I’m 29 and don’t know how to date in a pandemic haha

Spinuchi · 2020-06-24T21:41:00+00:00

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2020-06-24T08:06:11+00:00

25, also a late bloomer, only ever been in 2 real (but short) relationships as well. I'll be honest, I'm losing hope that people like us will ever have good dating lives because of Coronavirus, might be a good idea to marry the first girl that says yes at this point, better than being alone.

VDKay · 2020-06-24T15:25:22+00:00

Started seriously working on my physique and social skills (social hobbies) at 27. Till then I was the epitome of "Nerd"

First time I had a relationship and had sex was at 31. Feels good man!

It's never too late

Title	How many of you were late bloomers?
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Date	June 24, 2020 7:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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