Day 3 results | seduction

Hey guys so did 2 approaches today here are the results.

Approach was a Asian girl. This was a horrible horrible approach.

Opened same way with think you are cute. Her: aw thanks Me: what's your name ? Her: blabla Me: ok so here my brain just went haywire and I made racist comment don't even know why. I think I wanted to play on the fact that she's Asian or something. Anyways. So I asked oh it's this the equivalent of the Asian name or something like that Her : no no I was adopted Me : ohh so we're u from ( again what lol she is clearly from her Her: I am from Canada ( at this point I was like well that was a garbage lol) Me : oh so any exciting plans for tonight Her : no no just going home Me : ohh ok ok so just waiting for the bus Her: yeah. Me : well anyways I though u were cute anyways have a good day. Couples minutes later I return cuz I was like fuck it Me : hey actually would u mind exchanging numbers if you want chill at some point or hang out. Her : hesitant but still gave it to me Me : take out my phone and put it and while doing that I told her honestly I was a bit stressed coming to talk to you and that she threw me off guard. She gives me the number anyways and I leave.

Approach 2.

Me : hey sorry to disturb ur music I just thought u were cute Her : oh thanks Me : u seemed like u were really focusing on your music hahaha what u listent to Her : I listen to all kind things but French English Spanish Me : ooohhh French and I say it like dissapointed. Me again: I thought we could be compatible but u listent to Fenech music Her: she laughs Me : u also listent Spanish are u Spanish. She is like no Me right away. Wait lait me guess where ur from Her : u will never guess Me : ohh is that a challenge ok. Me : starts saying random shit Her : no no Me: ok give me a hint Her : somwhere near South America Me : Cuba, brazil Argentina Her: I am not Latina Me : keep enumerating Latin countries. Her : I told u I am not Latina and u will never guess. Me : ok ok I give up where u from Her : I am mixed. Half marocain half Haitian Me : so full nothing and right away I follow by I am joking. Her : you are a funny guy Me : umm I am ok ( yeah evidently no the best comeback. Her : are u Egyptian Me: wait what the fuck I think at this point she thought I got mad Her: ok ok maybe ur not Me : no no I am just how did u guess Her: I have a bunch of Egyptian freinds and their humor is very similar to yours. Me : we are a funny population Me : anyways I don't want keep u waiting would you like to exchange numbers. Her : I am not the type to give out my number Me: ooouh and what is the type to give out the number Her : I don't know but not me while laugh I offer to take her snap instead which she gives me and I leave.

Also update about the girl from yesterday. Texted her no reply. Also texted the Asian chick telling her that I am sorry about the awkward encounter and I don't usually do this but would like to see her. And just snapped the last one saying is that the girl that doesn't give her number. All no replies untill now loooool. ----> great lol.

[–]7GoodVibes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]yoooosam[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]7GoodVibes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Sweet and short, so she has no clue if you are a creepy stalker? A psycho? Would you give your number out to random dudes after a 1-2 minute conversation?

Women get the impression that you want her number, instead of wanting to get to know her.

One pretty easy thing you can do is tell some interesting and unique stories and involve her with them. You’re better off knowing these stories in advance, and only need to be 30-60 seconds at the most. No 5 minute stories here.

“Hey, check this out, last weekend I was at xxxx... yyyy happened, blah blah blah. Make it a fun and interesting story for her.

Don’t be afraid to allow interruptions, it’s common. She’s engaged. You don’t have to finish the story either, as long as the conversation is progressing.

This has the effect of prolonged conversation and she gets a picture of who you are and that you have a life.

The goal is to get her interest level high, then get a date or number, because it’s a natural thing at that stage.

There’s other things you can do, but this one is pretty easy and has a ton of benefits. Everyone loves a good storyteller (at the appropriate moment).

P.S. hang out for a little bit after getting the number, a minute or two if you want. No woman wants to feel like the goal was a phone number then have you leave once you got it. She is the prize, not the number.

[–]yoooosam[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]7GoodVibes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A few moments of silence... or when you want to change the topic...

“Hey! Check this out... Me and my friends went to Santa Barbara to go surfing a few summers ago. Tell me if this is messed up. So we get to the beach and get our boards and we head out. We’re out there for a few minutes and I look over and see some guy throw a huge bag in the water and run away. I’m thinking, what’s wrong with this guy?!? I ignored it at first and paddle out away from the shore, but something about it makes me want to over and get that huge bag. You ever get a feeling like that? So I’m riding a wave and all I could think about was that big bag. Screw this, I’m going to check it out. As I’m wading through the water, I think to myself why did this guy throw big bag of trash in the ocean? Finally I get to it and start to walk it over to where I can throw it away. Not even ten feet from the trash, I get this feeling that I gotta look inside. You know what I’m talking about here, so I unzip the bag and oh my god! You won’t belieeeve what’s inside! So I open it up and the first thing I see is this huge sex toy. I mean huge! I instantly throw the bag down, and as it lands a big wad of cash and a gun fall out. Wtf is going on? Should I call the cops? Well, I call the cops and when they got there they thank me for telling them about the gun. I never did find out what all that was about, but that ended up being the most amazing summer, and that’s when I learned that life has some really amazing surprises.”

Another example:

“You know what I just remembered? When I was a kid, I used go up north to visit my grandmother. I didn’t see her often, but it was cool to go see her. She is a cool, sweet little lady, but very feisty! This one time, my parents bring me up there and my best friend ended up coming with us. It is a long drive, and I was sooo glad he was there. We ended up sitting in traffic for, I don’t know, three or four hours. I think I would have did from boredom with my friend there, or died from the sound of my dad singing, interrupted by his crazy dumb jokes. Anyway, we finally get there, and we’re hanging out for a while while my grandmother is cooking. We look through all the old photo albums she has. You know the ones with the plastic pages? There were a ton of pictures of me when I was a kid in there that were completely embarrassing. I just wish I could have thrown them away, but anyway, we sit down to eat and my grandmother looks out the window and says “What the hell does he think he’s doing?” I’m completely confused because I don’t see anything. She stands up and grabs a broom and marches right outside. My parents just sit there looking at each other and I’m still confused. Should t we do something? Finally my parents get up and go outside, and we see my grandmother chasing this guy around trying to smack him with the broom until he runs off down the road. She walks over to us and yells, “Sit down and eat, I didn’t cook for nothing!” My dad tried to ask her what that was all about but my grandmother kept pretending she didn’t hear him and would tell us stories about when my dad was little. My dad would just sit there and shake his head. Families. You know what I mean? What’s something crazy your family has done?”

Find a story from your life that you feel comfortable telling, that you find interesting and exciting, can easily learn the bullet points to, and can fill a short period of time. 30-60 seconds is a decent amount of time at first, but these aren’t strict numbers. They don’t have to be super dramatic in reality, but make it somewhat interesting. Sell it with some energy and a little bit of emotion and animation.

The story you choose should convey the type of person you want her to see you as, and be realistic. If you want to pretend you are living the Tony Stark life, I can’t help you. Slightly embellished stories are ok. Outright lies are not.

Eventually, you can made these stories a lot more sexually charged, which has some big benefits, but if you can’t pull that off right, you’ll be an instant creep. Don’t be a creep, be normal. Stick to comfortable and easy stuff for now.

Ideally, you’ll make her smile and/or laugh. She might have comments, and she might have her own stories. All of these are good things, don’t interrupt her with nonsense and remember to keep her engaged. Show some interest by asking insightful questions.

I’d suggest having at least one back pocket story for now, three would be better but do one at a time. At least 2-3 back pocket openers is good to, generic ones you can use anywhere, any time, without having to think. It’s natural.

If the story doesn’t go over well with let say the first 10 girls, figure out if it’s the story or how you’re telling it and adjust as necessary. You should be able to tell if she is half way enjoying the story or not, and if she engages in return. Practice your story enough so you aren’t thinking about what to say, rather you can tell it and pay attention to her reactions.

As far hanging out afterwards, yeah, I mean just talk for a bit. A minute or two is fine for now. You want your actions to be clear that she is the important part of the interaction, not her phone number. Guys fuck this part up a lot. There might be times you can’t do this, just be honest.

Example:

“Hey, I have to go meet my friends, but I’d love to continue this conversation later. What’s your number?”

Have her put her number in your phone.

Talk about whatever, just don’t be a fuckup. A couple of minutes pass. Try to give at least 30 seconds if you’re in a hurry, and make it clear to her you had fun.

“This sucks but I really have to go to my dentist appointment, I’d love to stay and talk a bit more because we had a really cool conversation.”

Leave.

My examples aren’t to be used verbatim. They are only examples.

There’s a lot more you should be doing eventually, but start adding a little at a time and get comfortable at it.

Practice, approach, record your progress and review what you need work on or certain things you need to get beyond in the interaction. Repeat.

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Title	Day 3 results
Author	yoooosam
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	July 3, 2020 1:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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