Hello

I always felt that I severely lack this agressivenes, or boldness that a lot of guys have.

I did have pretty decent success with women, but honestly most of the times it felt like it wasnt me picking them up. I would stop at setting up a date and then let (or not) the woman in question pick me up, if that makes sense. Only then I would start "escalating" in physical sense.

I'm convinced that I'm being carried by my looks, personal culture and conversation skills, which I personally consider to be on a high level. However I don't think I've ever made an active effort to pick someone up on any date, party, etc.

I know I've missed good opportunities, because of that and that I have huuuge room for improvement in this aspect. I would like to start working on it, but have little idea how.

Any advice/ideas?

TLDR: I'm incredibly passive and I'd like to change that