Here is the method that I'm personally going with and that I recommend to my clients.

It’s actually super easy, the key is to focus on girls who want to meet. Statistically speaking, if she is on tinder it’s either for a hookup or for free male attention without intention to meet (only 4% of female Tinder users are there looking for a long term relationship only, Tinder official stats from 2017).

BECAUSE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THIS:

If she doesn’t want to hookup, you won’t change her mind.

If she wants to hookup, it will actually be easy.

So to figure that out, here are the 4 steps that I recommend below.

You basically have to find out step by step whether she is :

1. Up to talk. For example : “Hello cat lady”
2. Interested in a flirty interaction. For example “I think your life would be cooler with me in it”.
   I once had a girl reply "I think your life would be cooler with me riding on you" to that line. That's how hard it is.
3. Down to meet. For example “Therefore I think we should get a friendly coffee together”
4. Able to give you her number to plan a meetup. For example “Coolos, do you have a phone number? We figure a convenient time :)”

All of that should happen with some small talk in between, of course, to not make it feel robotic. No more than 10 texts though. Lead and figure out if she wants to leave her house.

BUT you do not want to ask for a hookup directly.

You ask her out, and once she is out you lead her to a place where the sex can happen.