Need advice

Liberaler · 2020-08-04T09:23:00+00:00

Hi,

as a late bloomer myself I have an idea about how you feel. Still, the importance of virginity is to a large degree just in your head. 19 is not even old. And it's never too late to get better with women. Also, you have not even reached your peak of attractiveness.

You probably will not feel better after losing your virginity to a prostitute, maybe even worse. It will not give you the experience you dream of. Better investment the money in cloth or a professional therapist, psychologist, who will help you to get rid of your blockages with women and feel happier in general.

One of the most important things: Once you are happy or at least okay with your life, it will become a lot easier to be successful with women and not the other way around. Build up a social circle with people you really enjoy, focus on your career. By doing that you will automatically improve your social skills and therefore get better with women too.

Best wishes!

TheMegatrizzle · 2020-08-04T14:55:00+00:00

I lost my v-card at 18 dawg. Stop obsessing over losing your v-card and focus on improving you. I didn't start talking to women till age 17 and the first thing I noticed is that the less you care about sex, women, and dating, the easier it is to have some success. Girls like guys who are about their stuff and on their purpose in life whatever that might be.

I was just thinking of a time when I tried cold approaching a girl and she showed low interest in talking to me. Then, as soon as she saw me with another girl and not giving her attention, suddenly she's hella flirty. My friend, it takes time, patience and a lot of bullshit but you'll get there. There's so much more to life than women bro, enjoy that shit and they will come, trust me.

tsh2001lau · 2020-08-04T10:36:15+00:00

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Dominus-Prime- · 2020-08-04T15:03:32+00:00

Your problem isn’t getting laid. You can get a hooker sure but when it’s done you’ll still be in the same mental place. The problem is you. There’s a lot to it and it takes time so if you like you can DM me

quinnmcd · 2020-08-04T16:26:33+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

Title	Need advice
Author	tsh2001lau
Upvotes	9
Comments	9
Date	August 4, 2020 8:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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