As someone who's new talking to girls, what are the 2 biggest challenges you're facing?

revente · 2020-08-04T22:42:34+00:00

The single biggest challenge is that you are your worst enemy and your overthinking is working against you. Girls are not that challenging to talk.

2020-08-04T21:09:53+00:00

the biggest trouble I had was believing whatever I had to say would be enough to get them to talk to me, unless I had an explicit reason to do so. this made me awkward upon starting conversation and it’s super off-putting.

also, enunciation was a big thing for me because I mumbled. I think in general, calibrating your communication style to the person you’re talking to is something that takes a lot of practice.

2020-08-05T03:08:55+00:00

Getting people to open up/engaged in the conversation.

ricoconyo · 2020-08-05T02:31:08+00:00

My biggest challenge is making a move

pua_max · 2020-08-05T04:40:14+00:00

Volume approaching. Kind of a humblebrag, but my number close rate is too high, like 2/3. I need to be approaching 10 an hour instead of like 3 really optimal ones.

harvey_croat · 2020-08-05T08:28:50+00:00

Your B. S. = Belief system 🙂

starfire_xes · 2020-08-05T04:17:55+00:00

Maybe your breathe stinks, and your dick looks like a toddlers dick...

Title	As someone who's new talking to girls, what are the 2 biggest challenges you're facing?
Author	NicVang
Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	August 4, 2020 9:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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