Serious thoughts on approaching

ilikepie145 · 2020-08-11T21:54:18+00:00

Usually I’m glad I did it no matter the outcome

_LuisFernandez_ · 2020-08-11T22:20:54+00:00

I get a thrill out of it to be honest, specially when they say no. You have to have confidence in yourself and don't let what others think of you bother you.

Sucks, but you do have to be a bit of a sociopath.

I usually say to them: "well glad i tried or i would have just wondered. what's the worst that could happen - you say no? Well i guess you could have pepper sprayed me - please don't"

That joke may even open them up a bit. Anyway, learn to thrive on the rejection. It's really a numbers game when it comes to daygame. I'd say 1/10 numbers. 1/40 numbers -> sex close.

The more you do it, the more sex you'll have!

ilikepie145 · 2020-08-12T02:05:18+00:00

Earlier today I had to run into Michaels for work. Had a short conversation with the cashier. "I like the highlights in your hair" "Thanks". Had to run in again later that afternoon because I got the wrong marker, as she was leaving. Made eye contact a few times, and she waited in the parking lot with her car door open playing with her phone for a few minutes. Walked up, talked a bit, gave her my number, now I'm planning a date for tomorrow night, because she's moving four hours away to college on Saturday.

englishcivilwar2 · 2020-08-12T00:30:50+00:00

When you say "hi", you already won. That's it. Take this frame with you in any approach you make and you'll be gold

STD_Tyler · 2020-08-12T00:35:25+00:00

wow your mom is cool AF

pua_max · 2020-08-12T02:05:44+00:00

Lol my parents looked at me kinda weird when I told them I did cold approach. They came around though.

dojames123 · 2020-08-12T05:07:52+00:00

This is the easiest and quick way to approach a girl and get a girl number I’m 3 for 3 with using this technique. When you approach her, already have your phone out and on the screen where she has to put here number in. Then you go up to her and say “ Can you fill this survey out for me” u hand her the phone she gone start laughing trust But she will give you her number.

throwawaygang21 · 2020-08-12T03:49:44+00:00

The first few are the hardest then you build up a tolerance and experience. Eventually you hear the same shit and it doesn’t effect you and you have perfect responses to it.

You have nothing to lose. If you get rejected then you’re building your tolerance/experience and if you don’t get rejected then you get the girl. Worst thing you can do is not approach because you remain a bitch and get no girls.

FlippaDaPostman · 2020-08-12T06:43:22+00:00

The first approach is nerve wracking but after that first one you get a surge of adrenaline and you just want to keep on going, or at least that's how I feel. In any case you won't know how you feel about it until you do it so just go out there and holla at the first beauty you see.

Cold approaching is like basketball when you first start playing you'll get rejected at the rim and maybe even laughed at but if you keep polishing your skills and practicing you'll be scoring girls or boys like how Curry scores threes.

2020-08-12T14:29:23+00:00

It’s not hard at least for me. The hard part is what comes after.

Title	Serious thoughts on approaching
Author	lacoste_play
Upvotes	31
Comments	16
Date	August 11, 2020 9:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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