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sexyhothung · 2020-08-12T19:42:23+00:00

Topics to discuss F.O.R.D. Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams

Topics to avoid R.A.P.E. Religion, Abortion, Politics, Exes

STD_Tyler · 2020-08-12T19:58:11+00:00

People feel comfort and trust towards others who talk to. The more she talks and open up to you, the more comfort she feels towards you. So yes let her talk and talk deep. Bonus if you relate to her. Ask deep questions, ask how she feels towards this and that.

09piercd · 2020-08-12T19:45:21+00:00

I always get them talking about themselves. They are definitely not bored if they are doing that. My experience comes from the fact that all the girls that have forced me into talking about myself are the ones I ended up falling for .

wowzacowza · 2020-08-12T21:32:28+00:00

Personal taste more than anything. I like to take an "active listener" role most of the time. To me, it's a lot easier to steer a conversation in a certain direction if you aren't trying to simultaneously come up with interesting things to say. That said, it can be tricky because there's a fine line between being an active listener and being a dead fish. If she's the only one contributing to the convo, she's gonna get bored. You also want to avoid the common mistake of asking question after question, otherwise she'll feel like she's being interrogated. What I like to do is ask a starter question then just make assumptions based on what she says. For example: "So where are you from?" Her: "Oh I was raised in Denver" You: "You must miss the mountains there, I've heard it's gorgeous". The assumption doesn't even need to be accurate, you're not trying to actually guess what she thinks. If you're wrong, she'll correct you. Using our previous mountain example again, she might reply "Actually I prefer the ocean, so I don't miss the mountains much". Hope that helps you out!

quinnmcd · 2020-08-13T00:49:58+00:00

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2020-08-12T19:58:37+00:00

Treat her like a woman you have no interest in and don’t put her on a pedestal and you’ll be about right

Ravana1998 · 2020-08-12T20:06:40+00:00

First of all I don't think that you are at the intermediate stage becoz then you wouldn't ask this simple fundamental question. For me, I generally start talking light and concentrate only in making connection.Now for the question that who should talk more, It totally depends on your frame and the compliance level.

If she is giving good compliance then by all means talk less and move to put a sexual seed inside her mind and start escalating for the pull. If she is not giving good compliance or giving you an uptight shit then maintain your frame and make her invest more to break her nice girl shield amd then build connection.

Don't talk tomuch becoz then it will turn her off. As you said how will you sell yourself (That is totally wrong mindset). It should be like that " You are a trophy for her and she should chase you",just give ger some hook statement about you and then make her ask more about you.

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