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[–]Shneker 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It sounds like you know what you’re doing, you’ve just been out of the game long enough to forget that confidence and that charm you had that made women attracted to you
I suggest just going out and getting back into it again. Be yourself. The only way to get better is to actually go out and practice. You can read up on theory and motivate yourself, it will help don’t get me wrong, but it won’t get you any girls that will be attracted to you.
Taking action is progressing. Progressing is mastering. Mastering is succession. Anything less than that is counter-intuitive. Good luck brother, keep us posted.
[–]DudeOJKilled 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks dude! Encouraging words.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every pound you lose will sky rocket your confidence. Hit those weights like they are the most important thing in the world ! Mental health is key and little changes across the board in your life for the better add up quick to feed a confident mind
[–]CityRevolutionary402 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm in the same boat haven't spoken to a girl (my age, not a worker or family member) since last year, girls are like mythical beings to me at this point I just see them on screens or distant on the streets
[–]strawberry_ren 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
RE 4, if women you talked to responded positively to how you approached them, I wouldn’t worry that your friends thought it was “cringe”. If it was cringe, wouldn’t you get that reaction from the women you talked to themselves?
[–]DudeOJKilled 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably, but who knows in hindsight. Regardless though, they made me always second guess myself when I’m talking to girls
[–]strawberry_ren 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As long as you’re being polite and respectful, I wouldn’t take your friends’ comments too seriously. Although I can’t say for sure because I don’t know them or you.
[–]GrandMasterB19 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man, I posted a guide here in seduction a few days ago called "this is how you stop creeping women out or feeling creepy around women." I think it would be very helpful for your concerns especially number 3.
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