Hi,

I noticed a pattern in my „dating experiences“, I meet girls that are attracted to me but I dont know how to start a deeper relationship with that person, we only ever talk about surface level stuff and it always only feels like we are good friends. I don‘t know how to escalate the relationship. Only under substances I know how to have more meaningful conversations. I just don‘t know how start releationship with someone who is obviously interested in me, what can you advise to me in this situation? I always feel very passive in my dating experience, although I‘m actually more extrovert with my friends(that I know for years)