Great reading material on the sidebar. I found it fascinating how most of my own natural conclusions were matching up with every rule and story in the handbook. There's a lot more material I never would have thought of but I can see it clearly.

However, the material suggests that a man with his own life and a high SMV value will attract women. Women will jump through hoops and want to find a way and will find said way to fuck you.

Contradicting this is the material that suggests a man should still go out and speak to women, never rewarding women unless they qualify themselves (exhibiting abundance mentality).

Also contradicting this is the plate spinning theory that a man should lead the way for his plates to be with him (e.g. Come over tonight. or Let's meet tomorrow morning at such 'n such). If plates are spinning well, they will find a way to be with him and probably become vocal (e.g. texting their man to find time with him, fighting with other plates).

I have a life example: I have a potential plate. We have no labels (I've communicated I don't want a relationship) and she has made it clear she wants to see me but I was busy. Since then, I've not heard from her. Is it my job to invite her over or wait when she wants me again?

TL;DR: Do I lead women or do I expect my high SMV to do all the work?