How + where do you meet women in the suburbs?

cottagecorehoe · 2020-08-26T15:10:45+00:00

Same situation as you, but I'm a gal who just graduated uni and moved back home.

I'd say most people use the dating apps, but I find dating apps in the suburbs to be kind of lackluster and not as exciting as they are in cities. I prefer to meet in person anyways.

Given COVID, I have put dating on pause, but I still make an effort to get outside every day after work and take walks around a neighborhood park, etc, in the off chance I might meet someone/run into someone who could be potential friend/dating material because I'm relatively lonely here moving back to my parents' place, haha. But I keep my expectations low because of COVID.

So far, I've met (while socially-distanced) some nice old couples lol!

BigSnips · 2020-08-26T13:52:53+00:00

You’ve got to rely on dating apps mostly in the burbs. Depending on the size of your town the bar play can be pretty good.

I live in a string of different small cities outside a major NA city and usually if we go a couple towns in either direction there will be new girls to step to.

The other way would be to find friends that live in the city and party with them or just find a job there and move there yourself.

ThePoolPlayer2016 · 2020-08-26T16:34:58+00:00

Pre Covid this was the situation I was in. I lived in the deep suburbs and worked super close to my place. I'd go to Starbucks, B&N, Target, etc... I'd mostly find married women, underage girls, or just women I could find nothing in common with. I'd literally just walk around Target for 2 hours and find no one to approach. Or I'd sit at Starbucks studying for hours and approach one person that gave me no play. Or I'd approach someone, get rejected, then accidentally approach again because I was going to the same places over and over.

What I realized is that such things are mostly a waste of time. Approach women as you go about your daily routine. If your routine doesn't present enough opportunities for you, then change the routine. For me, I started to go to my old college campus (30 minute drive) and use the library to work on some professional certification coursework. This brought back abundance and the interactions I had with those college girls were so much better and easier to navigate then the approaches on Target randos. Talking to a college student just instantly creates so many easy conversation threads.

All in all, just accept that the suburbs suck for game and invest the time to drive to a college campus or major urban area where young people congregate. I wouldn't do this during the pandemic, but hopefully by next semester colleges will be safe and the perfect place to game again.

Throwawaywanttoplay · 2020-08-28T13:00:47+00:00

Horse farms (hundreds of women, very very few other guys is any. At a horse show? Thousands of women, very few men, mall, grocery store, gym, at her place of work (dentist, doctor’s office, cashier, whatever.) I’m not the bar, online, or club type, so these would be the more common places I frequent.

Advorsor · 2020-08-26T13:56:29+00:00

Use the environment and seasons to your advantage. For example in Summer (now) there are many women usually around my local park/ball fields for exercise given COVID. Also, does your town have an active/trendy Main Street with shops, food, etc? Try walking up and down.

Winter is a little more tough because there is less to do and it’s hard to actually gauge what any given woman, aside from her face, looks like (since they are covered). Be strategic about it: Malls during Christmas will be high volume.

Supermarkets are good year-round and chances are you can approach her without any friends around her to throw you off.

backagainretard91 · 2020-08-26T15:19:19+00:00

If you’re hot just walk outside and you’ll have women lining up for you, if you’re average then you’ll need to nonchalantly brag about your money or lifestyle and then women will want you and if you’re ugly you can try online but you’ll be blocked 90% of the time or just ignored but other than that, that’s all of your options.

LawSchoolGuy83 · 2020-08-26T16:14:13+00:00

Target. Any day of the week. Anytime.

Title	How + where do you meet women in the suburbs?
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Date	August 26, 2020 1:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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