Any good tips or a mantra to use for hesitating to approach because of what others will think ?

menuadesso · 2020-09-11T06:07:26+00:00

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beastmodeking · 2020-09-11T04:51:35+00:00

I get so frustrated if I dont approach anymore I can’t not, not approach. Like literally I can’t sleep no more sessions where I’m crippled with anxiety and shit. I literally feel my heart sinking on the days id go home not doing a single approach. I just tell myself let out the beast bro. And honestly approaching is so much fun it’s more about you doing the approaches than it is about you tryna spit game etc etc. that version of myself I envisioned is coming to life fuck the cold feet bro. If you’re a confident attractive man others will see you and love you for your confidence or despise you for it. Also maybe you’re not approaching enough once you warm up it’s get really easy to do ballsy apporaches and high pressure situations

excentrik-art · 2020-09-11T07:22:44+00:00

You want mantra? Litany against fear from Dune. Works for me

I must not fear

Fear is the mind-killer

Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration

I will face my fear

I will permit it to pass over me and through me

And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path

Where the fear has gone there will be nothing

Only I will remain

testing_the_mackeral · 2020-09-11T04:48:02+00:00

So here’s the thing. Who cares what others think? There are all kinds of “tips” to slide into a conversation with a group and then hit the person you’re interested in.

All of that doesn’t matter unless you like that game. Go up to the person and say what you want to say whether anyone is there or not. Even if it’s a no from them and you’re laughed at, guess what? You try again another time.

And there is always a chance someone in that group has an interest in you besides the person you first looked at. You may get noticed for having confidence even if it’s weird and that’s a cool thing.

Just go for it and say what you want to say.

balthazardous · 2020-09-11T19:09:14+00:00

Realize life is short. Nothing negative here, just reality.

"If not now, when?"

Andetag · 2020-09-14T01:37:10+00:00

The time is ripe. Shakespeare

Title	Any good tips or a mantra to use for hesitating to approach because of what others will think ?
Author	beastmodeking
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 11, 2020 4:39 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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