Holding frame but too much?
I was out today on a cold approach outing. It was daylight w/ people around and I was walking towards a street crossing. A good sized homeless dude walks up aggressively and says some stuff. I stop, and keep my distance depending on where he walks. I was still feeling pretty game-y so I bantered with him as he was insulting me. Suddenly he says "aye, give me your bag or I'm going to beat your ass". My mind suddenly switches to holding frame. So I look him dead in the eye and go "Do you think you can?" He suddenly looks a little lost, and says "I don't know if I can, but you gotta give me it". I see he has a bag and say "Aye bro you got a bag too. It looks good on you man you don't need mine." I start walking away. He says some other stuff that I don't remember but at the end says something like "Come on man just give it to me I just want to have one good day". I yell back at him "Aye bro we can have good days without taking someone else's stuff. Want to bust a move with me?" There's some music playing in the background from a street performer w a sax so I start doing some moves as I walk away. I'm almost sad he didn't start dancing that would have been a nice ending.
The actual FR
Two-set in park: She had a boyfriend. Asked her about my approach - she said she liked it.
Two-set sitting outside restaurant: Friend was really stand-offish saying "hey we're gonna catch up so we'll start doing that right about now". Had a decent convo w main girl, but she was engaged unfortunately.
One-set on street: She had a boyfriend but held convo for a bit. Cool eyeliner - super shiny.
One-set on street: This one was cool. I was walking behind her on street planning to approach. She dropped a disposable plastic bag. I picked it up and tossed it. It looked like to me that she had just littered so I was going ehh this girl's personality is probably wack do I want to approach. She was hot though so I was split. A few seconds later, she looks down and is trying to find the plastic bag. Ah she had done it by mistake! Perfect time to approach. I banter with her that she's clumsy and that if she had actually littered I would've needed to given her a talking to. She laughs a ton and I walk with her down the street. I tell her that she's cute, but what's her age? She was 17 :(. Pass but it was hard. Prob most attractive one of the day.
One-set sitting: Girl visiting, didn't speak much english. We sat and talked for bout 15 min at a park. This was my outside workout time so I did some bodyweight workout and dance choreo while she watched. She was interested but she was less attractive than I thought and the language gap was big. Pass.
Summary
Overall a down day. It was definitely fun though and I learned a ton. I've been trying to keep a conversation going with girls who have boyfriends/engaged/married. I've found that as long as you switch to a more friendly frame or banter well, they usually like it. Currently working on making my approaches feel less platonic. It was useful to go more friendly with approaches at first so I could get more good sets/numbers. Now though I'm looking to polarize harder and improve my date rate from numbers.
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