Pick up men, for girls. How to? Some literature

2020-10-01T05:11:05+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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NDex101 · 2020-10-01T00:30:33+00:00

She is your friend, but she lives by a different code than men. No one thing will be the end all of information you can gather, but here's a step in the right direction. She needs to make it a little easier to approach. A simple smile when she catches a boy looking or a wave hello can get someone to actually approach. Dropping things and giving a compliment for a guy helping out is a great invitation in both situations. This is not to say be super slutty because that's a way to get abused. Instead, giving men a push in the right direction will activate his confidence. Hope this helped.

Aghayden · 2020-10-01T00:11:12+00:00

She can do the same things men do and if her goal is to get laid it will be much easier. Some men will be intimidated but those men probably wouldn't have been good in bed anyway, so it's not a big loss.

If she's looking for a relationship, that's a different situation. The most popular coach for women looking for a relationship is Mathhew Hussey but I'm not sure if he's good tbh

axe122 · 2020-10-02T03:13:44+00:00

I don’t believe many men are intimidated by a girl being independent. I think that’s some bullshit women tell themselves to feel better.

Many men are intimidated by a really attractive girl. Guys are def turned off by a girl preaching her independence and all that. There’s a difference between being intimidated and turned off by something. It depends how she presents it but if she’s quoting cliche shit you hear from daytime talk show women or bringing an I don’t need no man attitude it can be a turnoff. It usually comes with a whole bunch of far left progressive thinking that most men just wanna be bothered with. Life complicated and difficult enough to invite someone else’s issues into their life.

If she’s just independent like takes care of herself and is hot and cool but doesn’t try use that as her identity most men are probably nervous based on her looks. Without more details it’s hard to say where her issue is. Most Men I’ve known are not intimidated by strong independent women they just don’t really value that at the end of the day. A confident woman is a bonus but not a requirement for most men. Most guys don’t care if she’s shy and introverted if she’s cool and hot.

Title	Pick up men, for girls. How to? Some literature
Author	ElCuervoMiguel
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Date	September 30, 2020 11:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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