Do hobbies only carry some weight if you are very good at it?

Daytripsinsidecars · 2020-10-08T09:23:25+00:00

It’s like wearing pants. You need to wear pants on your date or she’ll think you’re a fucking weirdo. But you don’t get kudos for wearing pants.

Like you’re saying, wearing super fancy, expensive pants may get you noticed more, but it’s not needed.

Regular hobbies are like regular pants.

And regular pants are just fine.

xdevilsadvocate · 2020-10-08T09:24:50+00:00

You’re still doing them for the wrong reason.

Hobbies are supposed to be things you do with your free time because YOU enjoy them. Regardless of how good or bad you are at them.

dbrown1990 · 2020-10-08T09:56:11+00:00

Depends what hobbies mate. You can play 3 chords on a guitar and sing somewhat in key and its enough to "impress women". Honestly, women are pretty easy to impress, its getting a time when its appropriate to show off or talk about a hobby where it doesn't look like you are boasting about how great you are.

And yeah of course I will chime in with the don't do it for women comment.

Just find a few things that will make you feel better about yourself, once you do that you will have more direction and confidence, which are more attractive than some random hobby anyway.

cottagecorehoe · 2020-10-08T12:55:52+00:00

I am a woman in her 20s and don't care how good or bad you are at your hobbies as long as you genuinely love them and are passionate about them and are willing to teach me about them.

Hobbies can be just for fun and things you enjoy; not some crazy rat race where it's only meaningful and you're only fulfilled if you win.

Title	Do hobbies only carry some weight if you are very good at it?
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Date	October 8, 2020 9:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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