For much of my life I've repressed feelings of desire for women. Lately I've been reading book of Pook and one of his chapters he mentioned embracing you sexuality ( Which can be found here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/embrace-your-sexuality.28956/), and it really stuck with me.

For some reason I've always thought that if I appear cool, stoic, detached and unphased by her beauty she will find me attractive. But I've started to realize that the exact opposite is true. If I allow myself to feel desire and show sexual intent, then due to the principal of emotional mirroring, she will copy my emotional state and will in turn feel turned on, desired, and sexual back at me.

I've been allowing myself to feel that feeling of desire when I see an attractive woman in my day to day life. I may even lock eyes with her, and she will sometimes know what's up, and mirror back a seductive gaze back at me. All in all, its garnered some interesting and positive responses back from women.

I haven't had the courage to make a cold approach yet, but when I do I suspect showing sexual intent could be a force multiplier.

However, I think I've been getting a little overboard with this projecting my sexuality thing. Sometimes it gets a little exhausting constantly trying to project sexuality. I guess I should reserve it for girls that really peak my interest, rather than the frumpy 5 who I would bang if she offered, but I probably wouldn't waste my time pursuing.

In any case, has anyone ever gone through a similar thing and learned how to integrate this into their everyday life? I'd be really curious to hear. Thanks.