Last night I had a debate whether I should go to a boat party, and I decided to go. In the past I've been so hung up on pulling girls on nights out all to no avail, but I decided that the main goal for me here is to have fun and enjoy myself. Let's just say I kiss a couple of girls (although they lost interest in the end) but because I had this mindset, the fact I didn't pull felt like a couple of stone chippings rather than a big boulder on my psyche