Handling two ladies - how to not become a cheater ?

2020-11-05T14:56:59+00:00

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2020-11-05T09:12:40+00:00

you can't cheat -- you don't even know these women.

you should not give an impressoin to be exclusive with either. Chances are they are talking to other guys and they should.

2020-11-05T09:46:11+00:00

I don’t think these guys are getting that the two gals know each other and are actively communicating.

It’s not cheating but ya gotta be on top of your game. The shrewd one could be more challenging, and more interesting, and more of a conquest. And If you navigate that, you’ll grow a lot in your game. But if you find yourself drawn to to the chick that played her hand a bit too desperately, and want to go ltr because of the easy catch...then go for it. But don’t cheat yourself, keep them both flirty and friendly and pursue the one you’re more attracted to.

vze1fm8gn · 2020-11-05T08:25:19+00:00

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Golden-Resolution · 2020-11-05T11:19:53+00:00

It's not cheating if they both know it right? Threesome/Open relationship?

tibles20 · 2020-11-05T10:43:01+00:00

It is going to be hard not to be a cheater

2020-11-05T13:28:32+00:00

Exclusivity isn’t automatically there when you’ve only just been texting, unless it’s been agreed upon by both parties. If you’re having sex with one of them, going back and forth isn’t cool, because they do talk and that’s kinda shady, even though you’re still not exclusive. I don’t feel like it’s possible for you to be a. CHeater In this situation, or even that you should have to “pick”, but I do think it’s best to stop leading both along when you know damn well that you only want one. Soak up the attention, but don’t be surprised when they tell you to kick rocks because of the games.

jakethegreatwhite · 2020-11-05T13:56:01+00:00

Not exclusive then its not cheating

Title	Handling two ladies - how to not become a cheater ?
Author	vze1fm8gn
Upvotes	18
Comments	20
Date	November 5, 2020 8:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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