So, I've been struggling against falling back into my BP bullshit here lately. One of the big problems I have is placing to much value on her, while not demonstrating my own value.

It seems to me like one of my failings is my inability to DQ these chicks when we are meeting up initially.

  1. What should I be keeping in mind while I'm out with a girl.

  2. What are some good ways to setup qualifiers (i.e. how do I give her enough rope to hang herself)?

  3. Anything else that may seem relevant.