I started doing game regularly back in January. It got the entire way to March and then lockdown hit forcing me back to to my old home in the countryside away from civilization. I eventually started in September of this year when returning to University after a year out. I has been going really well! I've mostly been doing cold approaches on campus, and my results, for all intents and purposes, are great. 30% number close or there abouts. I've been on 2 dates, but decided not to continue with either for different reasons. But now it's December. Things are slowing down, everyone's leaving and things are going less my way.
So I want to ask, how do you guys keep the motivation to keep going at this despite lots of depressing failures and ghosting all of that? I find just the lack of any successes over the past month the most grueling thing. And it's a much more demotivating than approach anxiety ever was.
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