I've been on both sides of the fence. Never had much game but had to relearn everything I knew after a broken heart and single for too long. I'm a black guy which sounds easier with all the silly preconceived notions about how big our rods are but there I was, alone with a dry dick for over 5 years. It's not about getting lucky or retaining this "power" (That you never actually had). If anything give it all away so you can learn. Its more about dropping hints AS WELL without doing any completely stupid.

These "Naturals" aren't NATURAL, they've just built their opportunistic mindset on patience like fisherman. You don't just pack up when a fish runs off your bait, you re-bait your hook, cast and wait. If you do this long enough it's impossible to not catch something. Catching that "BIG FISH" seems like the luck of the draw but how is it that you can easily increase that "luck" by fishing with better bait or choose a body of water thats more prone to bigger a catch? If you asked me that sounds like practice and common sense.

The "problem" with this theory is that most "unnatural" guys that aren't the least experienced often are too delusionaly impatient to try it. Not only with the process but themselves. After seeing thier first fishing video They rush into the nearest walmart, pick up the first preassembled tackle set they see and expect this grandiose adventure only give up after a couple half assed attempts. Jesus, some women will fuck you just for being there long enough but many guys have such a brittle spirits they won't even bait thier fucking line! Whether it be cold approach or social circle game those naturals also had to learn how to fish at some point. Their only difference is patience and respect for the process.

I'm not saying this because it's hard, I'm saying because it's easy but smart men tend to over complicate such a simple process. Once your eyes are open the only luck you should be concerned with is if you lucky enough to ever have a fish that you CAN actually love and care about.

Amen CHEXX