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[–]Ok_Pension_2064 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is pretty normal in the dating scene, she is ready to date but somewhere in the process you probably messed up in her eyes so she flaked and made up an excuse. All I can say is just Move on and don’t give them second chances when they flake, always have a backup on the days you have a date. She wants to date but doesn’t want to date you
[–]iron_ee 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep this is most likely what happened. Best you can do is learn from it and move on. Don't dwell on this and attempt to rekindle anything, much easier to attract someone new.
[–]mlpbrandon1 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s okay cause buddy here’s a cookie 🍪.
[–]mrdeeds1972 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How long have you known her and how? She might be seeing how you'll react, maybe she just isn't ready during a pandemic or maybe she got a better offer. In any event move on and continue improving yourself.
[–]desertdwell12 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did she recently get out of a relationship?
[–]markjayson12345 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The problem is that you set adate but you kept on chatting her and that is a wrong move. When you set a date make sure lessen your chats because chat is for making some sched, date or an appointment only. Don't talk about everything on the phone so that she will get excited when she can finally meet you in person.
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[–]markjayson12345 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As much as possible yes. Only chat her when your date day is near like 1 day before just to remind her.
Don't take it too personally. Have a abundant mindset. It's her loss when she cancelled the date. You are the prize brotha
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look for more opportunities if you're looking for love or something else. It's not worth the time to continue with what's going on. Try not to get committed as early. Build up that friendship level until you know the other person is ready when you do find someone else.
[–]2manymugs 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She just probably decided that she wasn't that into you. No big deal it happens. That's what dating is about and sometimes after a date or 2 or after texting for a while, one person just realizes this is not the right match for him or her. Some people don't know how to say that, so they come up with an excuse such as "I'm not ready to date right now."
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