How can I gain sexual confidence as a young male?

revente · 2021-02-19T10:54:53+00:00

These sound like little succeses actually. Yeah you couln't seal the deal, but it looks like you have the basics grapsed and just need to iron out the problems.

Also just get viagra/cialis.

Alchemist_XP · 2021-02-19T12:08:07+00:00

Honestly i go through phases pf this and i have no idea why it happens. Its like when im with a girl nothing, but when im alone, no problems. I honestly thought i might be gay for awhile, but even while openly thinking about it, it just didnt seem right and i was very attracted to women.

Suddenly i had a few encounters where everything was just perfect. No problems. It was like in those moments i really could not give a fuck. I was on like caveman settings, pants go down, bend girl over, and have at’er. Then suddely ill go back to my old ways.

Tbh im in my early 30s now and it isnt really an issue anymore. I just know the times i had success, is when i was barely thinking about anything. Just going on a whim. So somehow try and go into it not thinking anout what to do, but just relax and do it.

trebaruna00 · 2021-02-20T00:55:11+00:00

I will give you the best advice.

I wil not say things like: relax and enjoy, you are tired of reading this kind of tips.

Everytime you feel nervous before having sex, do oral sex on her. Learn some things on the internet and try to practice with a sex toy (sponge vagina?)

When you go down on her you take yourself some pressure to "perform". Every girl likes oral sex, if you know how to use your fingers, touch her G-spot, clitoris, for 10-15 minutes, it is enough time to make you relax.

And believe me, when you notice she is enjoying you will feel more hornier.

Good luck

jackpil · 2021-02-19T11:47:13+00:00

I swear,that's my same situation

rizla59 · 2021-02-19T22:39:57+00:00

Do you watch porn? Could be having a major impact here

HeavenPiercingMan · 2021-02-20T02:42:42+00:00

Couldn't you just "communicate" with the girl instead of trying to prove yourself? If she's down with you, in theory she should adapt to you. If not, she's not worth it.

E9er · 2021-02-21T02:09:36+00:00

focus on her needs first. if you watch her get turned on you will then get horny. maybe she wasn’t a visual stunner to get you horny. but maybe once your other sense get activated by watching, hearing, smelling, feeling, her get horny and hot you will get turned on. usually start making out grab her ass, slap it, kiss her tits, her neck. bite her lips then finger her or give her head. once she starts getting turned on that should help you get turned on too. if not viagra bro

Title	How can I gain sexual confidence as a young male?
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Date	February 19, 2021 10:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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