Conversational= be yourself, be present in the conversation, chatting for a while, being flirty but mainly friendly, ask for their number if its a logical conclusion of your positive interaction.

Issue is you run the risk of talking too much and saying something silly or overstaying your welcome and actually decreasing attraction.

Mysterious = keep it very short, decidivd, you’re here to get her number or get her on a date in as few words and short time as possible. You can reveal more about who you are on the date not now. You show that you value your time and she should be intrigued by you.

Issue is it can seem off putting and premeditated, you don’t get to really suss if somebody is actually worth having a date with before you shoot the shot so it’s mainly just going by appearance... and they may be more likely to reject if they haven’t built enough rapport to feel uncomfortable.

What’s your thoughts?