Commented this on some guys post but i tought I might aswell share it with the whole community. Might be a terrible idea too idk we'll see. He also invited me in some kind of hooking up sect so thats weird but here we go.

You know I originally tought id have a good laugh on this sub but some of the posts are just depressing so why not help a little. Keep in mind thats my way of doing things. Im not mocking anyone or things like that but ive never had issues with that stuff so im just trying to share knowledge. Also forgive me for the spelling mistakes my first language is french.

Now, the best way to meet girls is through your friends. They will feel safe and also youll have a way to contact them later (ask your friend or the people you were with for her name or whatever) without having to ask for a number right away which just makes them think youll fall in love with the slightest amount of affection.

Having that said, you dont wanna show a girl  you are interested right away cause thats just a huge turnoff to anyone i believe. Imagine youve met a girl 3 hours ago and shes already all over you, that might make you think there is something off about her right? Its just too easy right? Well thats it dont do it.

Now as for strategy, what you wanna do at a get togheter or party or what have you is try to pay attention and notice if a girl is looking at you more than she should. Is she looking away quickly when you look back or smiles a bit? Either way if you catch her 2-3 times thats when you approach. Noowww its very important to establish you a tiny bit of physical contact to see if you repulse her. Dont be creepy with it cause that also weird and girls dont like weird stuff, well most dont. Theeennn couple days later, if you havent hit by that point, you follow her on instagram to see if she remembers you. She accepted? Good now out of nowhere when she posts a story just reply to it with anything thatll hopefully make her chuckle a bit. Your in my man, now keep conversations lite and stop texting if you have nothing to say it doesnt really matter by that point. try to set up another party you can both go to or small thing with other people involved but when youre there focus on her. okay? Et voila, dont say anything stupid for 2 hours and you should be good. Bring her back. And now work on keeping her I guess.

I do realise some people here have anxiety talking to people. Thats just the way I do it so anyway

Hope this helps some of you