Thought this was worth sharing.

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If your life sucks and you have to bring a girl into it to make it good, then that's probably not a good sign.

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If you can create a good life for yourself without women, and then bring a girl into the picture, you're improving a life you designed that's already good with or without them.

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Think of this like buying something you really want with cash you already have saved and prepared, instead of getting into debt.

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If you try to date in the former example when your life is a mess, not only will you reek of neediness and inevitably fail, but you're also neglecting the rest of your life which should be your priority.

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If you are hopelessly struggling, I challenge you to delete all of your dating apps and completely stop talking to women for the next two months until you straighten out your other problems. Pay off your debt. Save some money so you can comfortably do fun stuff and go on dates. Eat a little better. Get back into a gym routine. Revisit a hobby or a project you're working on.

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There is no better time than now to do this seeing as how vaccinations will be available to most people starting tomorrow, and this pandemic should be heading towards its end in the next 2-3 months.