What works for you?

chips_and_hummus · 2024-03-22T01:46:00+00:00

best way is to make a joke/comment/banter on a photo or prompt she has. say something clever/funny/both for 2 or 3 messages and if she responds to you (this is basically all the indicator of interest you need on an app, as a completely uninterested girl will simply not respond) then ask for her number in a smooth way based on the commentary so far.

If she's responding with 1 word answers then she probly won't give her number but at that point nothing you would have said would have changed anything. Also sometimes the conversation was fine and a girl still won't give her number, probably because she's attracted to a different match. Don't worry about it, and move on.

Westernation · 2024-03-21T21:02:08+00:00

Just tell them you’re already in the house. They usually respond right away 🤣🤣🤣

tomahawk145 · 2024-03-21T22:12:10+00:00

I'm by no means sucessful with women or anything, but I think you should always refer to something in her profile. It can be something you noticed on her photos or in her bio.

"Hi" is what 500 other guys already sent her and is an easy way to get ghosted or unmatched.

Healthy-Act-7944 · 2024-03-22T06:53:39+00:00

What works for me is talking to women in person , and staying off dating apps.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-03-21T20:44:10+00:00

This is how I personally turn OLD matches into dates

doyouknowshmolik · 2024-03-23T14:25:04+00:00

Your question is dumb. Do you care about how a girl first message you on a dating app? You don’t. You care about her bio and her pictures. So fix those and send how many “hey’s” and “how are you” as you like…

Material_Course3006 · 2024-03-22T09:35:42+00:00

For some reason the more platonic I talked that's where all my success came from. Whenever I would be flirty or sexual they would always lead me on or ghost me right away. Whenever I never flirted, never made any sexual, just kept things boring, was when the girls were more willing to do anything. I don't understand why.

skunkwoks · 2024-03-21T20:05:35+00:00

Nothing works for me…

billoverbeck00 · 2024-03-21T20:35:13+00:00

Like the other guy said nothing works for me, barely get likes and the ones that do match never actually respond maybe only once. You’re better off hitting them up on instagram and even then it’s still rough unless you got plenty of followers to make you stand out

Title	What works for you?
Author	romeo602_
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	March 21, 2024 8:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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