My wife just told me she wanted to be alone or I don’t what to waste your time after 3 months of us in a rough patch. Been together 8 years but been away from each other due to assignments. Her answer was her feelings changed…. She currently deployed and her feelings changed in a period from Jan 8th to March 26th. I’ve been deployed I know what goes on. Should I spazz or should I just say F it and get the divorce?