Should I read The Surrendered Wife even if I'm not married and not planning on getting married anytime soon? I'm also 18

youllknowwhenitstime · 2024-03-28T03:54:57+00:00

First, there's a reason one of the most common vetting questions we pose around here to OP's is "If he doesn't change, would you be willing to stay with him?" Sacrificing your time hoping someone will change is typically a fool's errand - it's living in a fantasy instead of handling the reality.

As for The Surrendered Wife - it can be quite useful to read while imagining a future marriage. Additionally, once you believe you've finished vetting a man and do want to marry him, and your goals shift wholly to seducing him, many of the techniques can be applied as you hope he will also decide you pass his vetting. Until he has passed your vetting, however: submission is for husbands (men who have earned it). Agreeableness is for boyfriends - a little taste of the submission you're capable of without engaging in unearned submission, which can be literally dangerous.

But the book you want in your current stage of life is The Surrendered Single, also by Laura Doyle.

Vegetable-Wind6708 · 2024-03-28T18:50:52+00:00

I'd read "Surrendered Singles" or "The Empowered Wife."

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Title: Should I read The Surrendered Wife even if I'm not married and not planning on getting married anytime soon? I'm also 18

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I've recently discovered this subreddit as I was looking for ways to improve my relationship with my bf. I am 18, he is 20. We've only been together for about 7-8 months now. We're going through a rough patch (where I was fairly certain I was going to break up with him) but I want to give this another chance, at least for a couple of weeks. I am absolutely not looking to be married anytime soon and definitely not with him (unless he magically changes). Would it do me any good to read The Surrendered Wife?

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Ok_Rhino · 2024-03-28T18:04:53+00:00

I would say yes because it will help you understand a man. I would recommend you read “The Queens Code” first by Allison Armstrong, (it’s life changing; it explains men’s behavior), read “Keys to the Kingdom” also by Allison Armstrong, and then read “The Surrendered Wife” in that order. The Surrendered Wife will make a lot more sense once you read Allison’s books. Good luck!

twohunnidpercent · 2024-03-29T04:29:25+00:00

Find someone who can provide for you. Work on being submissive by nature

LiteratureOk7716 · 2024-04-01T16:51:19+00:00

It can't hurt to prepare for your, presumably, red pilled future and your future-focus is admirable. However, my husband never ceases to remind me, when I'm reading college admissions catalogues for Oxbridge, that our daughter is scarcely 4, won't be in a position to sit for her AGCSEs for 14 years yet, and the world will have changed in unforeseeable ways between now and then. So, I need to focus on the present as well as planning for the future.

Incidentally, u/murkyperspective767 is the opposite, very much present focused, and I remind him to focus on the future as well.

Title	Should I read The Surrendered Wife even if I'm not married and not planning on getting married anytime soon? I'm also 18
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Date	March 28, 2024 2:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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